DjCjam
32 Brooklyn, United States
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My self-summary
I hate dating. There I said it. I know it's kind of weird to bring that up on a dating site but I feel I need to be upfront. There's something fake or staged about it. I don't feel natural and therefore have trouble acting natural. I'm more about getting to know people casually, through hanging out around the house or while engaging in common interests. I'm an outgoing person but I can be a little shy at first. If you can dig it, please read on.

I've lived an unusual life with many strange twists and turns. I've been attacked by a Chinese midget, been offered a tv spot on Judge Judy, and I've won more drunken unofficial dance offs than I care to remember. My point is, when not working and planning my future I like to get into trouble and shake things up a bit. Care to join?
What I’m doing with my life
Usually asking myself, "What am I doing with my life?" But in my spare time, I'm a psychotherapist working with traumatized car accident victims. I'm also laying the groundwork for a private therapy practice. And debating about going back for my PhD. Decisions decisions...
I’m really good at
Air hockey. Being anxious. Listing things I'm good at. Mortal Kombat. Helping other people make good decisions I can't seem to make myself.
The first things people usually notice about me
That I am the person you've felt most comfortable talking about anything with ever. Ever.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
Books: The Tin Drum, The Mole People, Failed States, reading Game of Thrones now.

Movies: Eternal Sunshine of the Spotless Mind, Amelie, Edward Scissorhands, Ghostbusters

Shows: Lost, Breaking Bad, The Office, House, Arrested Development, Parks and Recreation, Law and Order SVU

Music: The Decemberists, Gin Blossoms, Weezer, Gogol Bordello, Amy Winehouse, 80's music...etc

Food: Pretty much anything except for yogurt and sushi.
The six things I could never do without
1. Internet
2. Humor
6. Counting skills
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I'm afraid of butterflies.
You should message me if
You are ok with non standard "dating". A casual hangout or activity where we can get to know each other without it looking or feeling like a date. I'm not sure exactly what that means either. Help me figure it out?
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