I'm big on honesty, so i present to you: me.
I'm thoughtful, genuine, empathetic, and kind. This leads me to be a bit naive and I've been taken advantage of more times than I'd like to admit. I give people the benefit of the doubt and would consider myself a worrisome optimist.
I get choked up sometimes, usually because of an act of kindness, out of gratitude, or simply because I get overcome by beauty. Countless times I've been told I have "kind eyes" and people tend to open up and trust me almost immediately. I take that as a very high compliment.
If you've figured out what you are passionate about and are working towards your future career, congratulations. As for me? I'm a retired porn-star who dropped out of college (twice) and who has no idea what his next move is. If you've got suggestions for someone with my skill-set I'd love to hear them.
Since the porn-star thing is out of the bag, I'll freely admit I'm a very sex-driven person. My libido is off the charts and has lead me to many interesting situations, for better or worse.
I'm not in a place to get deeply emotionally involved with anyone at the moment, although one can't really control who gives us the warm fuzzy. That being said, I always strive to 'connect' with people, especially lovers. A casual encounter doesn't constitute a meaningless one. Everyone I touch I try to leave feeling that they are wonderful, and hope that they'll reflect on our time together for years to come, even if it only an evening together.
I don't identify as 'straight'. I don't identify as anything. Sexuality is so fluid and forever changing. Whomever I'm with, whatever you've got going on, however you identify, I just let chemistry lead me where it wants to go and enjoy myself.
Movies: Princess Bride, Anchorman, Goonies, American Beauty, Serenity, Up, Aladin, Momento, Magnolia, Requiem for a Dream, Amelé, Willow, Labyrinth, Let the Right One In
Shows: Community, Firefly, How I Met Your Mother, Family Guy, Pawn Stars, Mythbusters, The Daily Show, The Colbert Report, Glenn Beck (J/K), ATHF, Dr Horrible's Sing-Along Blog
Music: Very eclectic tastes. I enjoy just about everything and yes, that includes country. Some favs are: Cake, NIN, Tori Amos, Muse, Frank Sinatra, George Straight, Cohered and Cambria, Weezer, Dashboard Confessional (yeah I said it), KMFDM, J. Ralph, Aphex Twin, Mumford & Sons
Food: Although I have a mild gluten allergy, I each just about anything but don't care for much sea food.
Games: R.I.S.K., Settlers of Catan, Axis & Allies, Scategories, Magic the Gathering, and strip-(insert whatever you want here), and GLOOM!
A car or motorcycle and the freedom they offer.
Some type of organized sports activity. I'd go stir-crazy.
Sex, touch, intimacy and connection.
NPR & TED Talks (I'm counting those as 1)
How many is that, 5? Let's see...iced tea. Yeah, iced tea is a solid 6.
I think I could be a vegan if I didn't have to give up cheese. I think I could be a vegetarian if I didn't have to give up meat.
What's the ruling for how many degrees you are from Kevin Bacon? Like, if your friend knows Kevin, are you one degree or two degrees from him? In other words, does KB count as a degree himself?
***I have found that if I'm rolling the above statement may not be 100% factual.***
If you enjoy this quote as much as I do: "A philosopher is like a blind man in a dark room searching for a black hat that isn't really there. A theologian is the man who says he's found it."
You want to play Munchkin or GLOOM.
You need a cat-sitter. I like cats :)
You're just looking to have some fun with no overblown expectations.
You're trapped in a glass case of emotion and need help out.
You have a cool accent.
You are a suicide girl.
You're a tattoo artist willing to work for trade.
**For years I've been considering going on a walk to Florida or perhaps even across the country. I'd really like to start working towards this goal, but aren't too hip on doing it alone. If you think this sounds interesting and are crazy enough that you think you may like to join me, please reach out to me. Alternatively, I'd like to bicycle across the country too. If that's more your speed than hit me up!**