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My self-summary
Before we get started I just want to point out something blazingly obvious that dudes just don't seem to get. Starting out your message by calling me sexy or beautiful or gorgeous is the internet version of cat calling, which is an act of violence, male privilege and misogyny. Rape culture ain't welcome in my life, if that's your game don't bother.

Now, I am a polyamorous, pansexual, post modern theorist that is addicted to upper education and information.

I am passionate about knowledge and understanding but do not expect to ever find truth.

I paint and get rather involved in figure drawing. I think, perhaps, I've read too much Anaïs Nin (Models and Artists)

I'm often more interested in seemingly irrelevant things... there's much more to be learned from the things no one is watching..

I love hard and honestly and I'm good at it.
What I’m doing with my life
I am reading an anthology of modernism to post modernism, I will never finish this book because it is a portal to another dimension and my corporeal self cannot withstand the elements of the wormhole because I don't have a Tardis.
I’m really good at
Discussing (take note I did not say arguing.. I do not like to argue) Post Modern Theory, Conceptual realities..

Deconstructing discourse, reality, myself.. you.

Trying to reduce my carbon footprint.

Attempting to understand what being an ethical human looks like and how to accept the responsibility to and for one another and for his earth that comes with being human.
The first things people usually notice about me
My badass hair.
My thick thighs.
That I give no fucks.
That I take no shit.
My slow Cheshire Cat grin.

What you notice depends on You..
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
Authors: Marge Piercy, Michel Foucault, Judith Butler, Jacques Lacan, Bret Easton Ellis, Judith Halberstam, Pablo Neruda, e.e.cummings, Richard Dawkins, Leonard Cohen, Derrida, Anais Nin, Nabakov (but not how you're assuming, he made me utterly insane and that's why I love him), Sylvia Plath, Raold Dahl.

Films: 3, Let The Right One In (Swedish version), Sunshine Of A Spotless Mind, I Heart Huckabees, Smoke Signals, the Alien(s) films, Harold & Maude, StarTrek films, StarWars (specifically4,5&6), LOtR, The Gods Must Be Crazy, CON, Joss Whedon's Cabin In The Woods, Chi-raq, Guillermo del Toro is my favourite director.. a-maze-ing! I also really enjoy Jean-Pierre Jeunet.

Shows: StarTrek NextGen, StarTrek Voyager, Firefly, American Horror Story, Big Bang Theory, Family Guy, The L Word, Dexter, Orange Is The New Black, Grace & Frankie.

Food: Chocolate, banana, peanutbutter milkshakes from Watercourse Foods, The Sardou breakfast at City O' City, Nachos with Jackfruit from Tasty Harmony & The brussel speouts from Sputnik's, all the deliciousness at Beet Box Vegan Bakery.

Music: Jeff Buckley, Leonard Cohen, Tom Waits, Cat Power, Elliott Smith, Radiohead, Portishead, Massive Attack, The Deftones, Smashing Pumpkins, Yeah Yeah Yeahs, Belle & Sebastian, Rage Against The Machine, Fiona Apple, Tipper, Robert Plant with Alison Krauss, Haitus Kaiyote, Alabama Shakes, Polish Ambassador, Lupe Fiasco, Busdriver, The Fugees.

Have you heard Sky Giant by Transglobal Underground? You should, with head phones..alone with your eyes closed.. it's that good.
The six things I could never do without
This question isn't actually about what we could never do without, because then all answers would be clean air, water, sleep, sunlight, food, shelter and probably a 7th, communication..

I think what this question means to ask is what things do you greatly value enough to establish in your life and maintain.

The pursuit of interconnectedness.
I spend a lot of time thinking about

Post Modern Theory.

A world without patriarchy.

Consciousness, philosophically and physically. Everything is a result of chemical processes yet reality is illusory.
On a typical Friday night I am
Working, at a show, biking, reading, on a date, snuggling in bed, sitting in silence and thinking (I wish more people sat silently to think instead of filling the silence with meaningless noise.. how can you know yourself if you can't be alone with yourself?)

Making sweet sweet love to someone (s)... hopefully.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I am in love with myself.
You should message me if
If you aren't a bigot and you are a strident feminist that knows how to get down.

And if you're willing to bring me a vegan cupcake.

This little part is for the fellas... I am not interested in nonconsensual nonmonogamy. I don't appreciate traditional aggressive masculinity... I wear my own pants and skirt and onesies and whatever I want to.. don't try to devalue my masculinity, gender is a joke and the jokes on you.. if you assume I'm interested in fucking you.. go fuck yourself. I might be... but your privileged assumption is pathetic and disgusting.

If the last paragraph made you angry or uncomfortable then don't message me. You've obviously missed why this statement is valid, authentic and important, which is a good indication that it was directed at you. Therefore, you have absolutely nothing original, interesting or polite to say to me, believe me. Your misogynistic white middle class straight male carbon copies already tried. Save us both some time. Thanks.