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My self-summary
If you are a CIS MALE do not message me, go the fuck away, leave me alone.. seriously.

Now, I am a polyamorous, pansexual, post modern theorist that is addicted to upper education and information.

I am passionate about knowledge and understanding but do not expect to ever find truth.

I paint and get rather involved in figure drawing. I think, perhaps, I've read too much Anaïs Nin (Models and Artists)

I'm often more interested in seemingly irrelevant things... there's much more to be learned from the things no one is watching.. I'm watching, your body language, I'm listening to the words you choose and the inflection in your voice, I'm detecting falsity or sincerity...

I love hard and honestly and I'm good at it.
What I’m doing with my life
I am reading an anthology of modernism to post modernism, I will never finish this book because it is a portal to another dimension and my corporeal self cannot withstand the elements of the wormhole because I don't have a Tardis.

When I'm not doing that, I'm paying attention to the world around me, I'm considering the implications of my actions, purchases, beliefs and how I can do better.

I'm going to start school again in January to get my license to do psycho therapy. Specifically, a more personalized post modern approach that teaches empowerment, agency and community building. Nothing is going to change unless we facilitate that change and are always accountable for the implications and repercussions of our actions, so make sure that you aren't working from a place of privilege but instead from a place of empathy.... Empathy means listening, means asking what can, needs to be done.. not deciding you know what's best. You don't.
I’m really good at
Discussing (take note I did not say arguing.. I do not like to argue) Post Modern Theory, Conceptual realities..

Deconstructing discourse, reality, myself.. you.

Trying to reduce my carbon footprint.

Attempting to understand what being an ethical human looks like and how to accept the responsibility to and for one another and for his earth that comes with being human. Practicing empathy, (and sometimes failing at it, but still practicing.)
The first things people usually notice about me
My badass hair.
My thick thighs.
That I give no fucks.
That I take no shit.
My slow Cheshire Cat grin.
That if you spark my interest and listen, I will blow your mind.

What you notice depends on You..
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
Authors: Marge Piercy, Michel Foucault, Judith Butler, Jacques Lacan, Bret Easton Ellis, Judith Halberstam, Pablo Neruda, e.e.cummings, Richard Dawkins, Leonard Cohen, Derrida, Anais Nin, Nabakov (but not how you're assuming, he made me utterly insane and that's why I love him), Sylvia Plath, Raold Dahl.

Films: 3, Parched, Mad Max: Fury road, Neighbors 2, Let The Right One In (Swedish version), Sunshine Of A Spotless Mind, I Heart Huckabees, Smoke Signals, the Alien(s) films, Harold & Maude, StarTrek films, StarWars (specifically4,5,6&7), LOtR, The Gods Must Be Crazy, CON, Joss Whedon's Cabin In The Woods, Chi-raq, Guillermo del Toro is my favourite director.. a-maze-ing! I also really enjoy Jean-Pierre Jeunet.

Shows: StarTrek NextGen, StarTrek Voyager, Firefly, American Horror Story, Big Bang Theory, Family Guy, The L Word, Dexter, Orange Is The New Black, Grace & Frankie, Transparent.

Food: Chocolate, banana, peanutbutter milkshakes from Watercourse Foods, The Sardou breakfast at City O' City, Nachos with Jackfruit from Tasty Harmony & The brussel speouts from Sputnik's, all the deliciousness at Beet Box Vegan Bakery.

Music: Jeff Buckley, Leonard Cohen, Tom Waits, Cat Power, Elliott Smith, Radiohead, Portishead, Massive Attack, The Deftones, Smashing Pumpkins, Yeah Yeah Yeahs, Belle & Sebastian, Rage Against The Machine, Fiona Apple, Tipper, Robert Plant with Alison Krauss, Haitus Kaiyote, Alabama Shakes, Polish Ambassador, Lupe Fiasco, Busdriver, The Fugees.

Have you heard Sky Giant by Transglobal Underground? You should, with head phones..alone with your eyes closed.. it's that good.
Six things I could never do without
This question isn't actually about what we could never do without, because then all answers would be clean air, water, sleep, sunlight, food, shelter and probably a 7th, communication..

I think what this question means to ask is what things do you greatly value enough to establish in your life and maintain.

The pursuit of interconnectedness.
I spend a lot of time thinking about


Post Modern Theory.

A world without patriarchy.

Consciousness, philosophically and physically. Everything is a result of chemical processes yet reality is illusory.
On a typical Friday night I am
Reading, thinking, at a show, biking, reading, on a date, snuggling in bed, sitting in silence and thinking (I wish more people sat silently to think instead of filling the silence with meaningless noise.. how can you know yourself if you can't be alone with yourself?)

Making sweet sweet love to someone (s)... hopefully.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I am totally in love with myself. I hope you are in love with yourself too. Having humility is so much easier when your sense of self comes from within rather than from without.
You should message me if
If you aren't a bigot and you are a strident radical intersectional feminist and social justice activist that knows how to get down.

If you are not a cis male.
The two of us