After 35 years in the labor pool I am now attending school full-time, intending to make a mid-life career change from publishing to the arts. It's exciting, but I'm living on student loans.
I have a dog and 2 cats so if you're allergic pass me by.
I identify as poly and my primary partner is curvygirlicious on OKC. If you are looking for your one-and-only I'm not the man for you. But relationships come in all styles and flavors so please don't be shy with me.
I'm an ethical slut, emphasis on the "ethical."
I am a leftist and proud of it. If you voted for Romney/Ryan we are NOT a match. If we crossed paths at Zuccotti Park we should talk.
Doing my small part to abolish wage slavery.
Musically I'm all over the map. Currently I'm listening to the Knitters, Speedbuggy, Yardbirds, antmusic for antpeople, Sex Pistols, Commander Cody, X, Dread Zeppelin, The Drongos, Flying Burrito Brothers, Dave Alvin, The Ramones, The Blasters, Social Distortion, The Beatles, and The Dave Clark 5. As I type this I'm listening to String Cheese Incident play side 2 of Abbey Road. Bowie changed my life, The Dead taught me how to dance, Patti Smith taught me how to rebel, and Frank Zappa is like a god for me.
Many years ago I went through what I call my Tragic Folkie Period. It began in 1974 when I discovered early Dylan and ended in 1978 when I discovered the Sex Pistols. For some reason I seem to be returning to those days since I'm listening to a lot of American roots music lately.
My teevee watching consists mostly of The Walking Dead, Doctor Who, and adult swim. I watch teevee on DVD and online rather than on the box. Please feel free to introduce me to something great.
**A daily shower
**Your hot breath on my neck
**My hot breath on your neck
**Sunblock. Serious Sunblock.
Yes, I know that's more than six---I can count---but I refuse to accept arbitrary limitations imposed by a shadowly authority.
Intelligence (because smart people are always the best lovers);
Healthy libido and a working knowledge of your own pleasure;
Actors, writers, and comics are a plus (but feel free to define your creativity in your own terms); A full-body approach to physical communication; Sense of humor; and Emotional stability.
Control freaks and prudes should not apply---I'm not what you are looking for. Seriously, I would just make you crazy. Thanks anyway.
You should understand that talking is part of foreplay--and that afterplay is also foreplay.
Chemistry is all-important in a friend, a partner, a cast member, a fuck buddy, or a book group moderator. It's hard to define but impossible to fake. But as Justice Potter Stewart once said to his lesbian dom, "I know it when I see it."