DontChaH8Pants
30 Winnipeg, Canada
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My self-summary
Updated for 2016
Where to begin. How about starting with my personality. I consider myself to be gentle, loyal, friendly, patient, flexible, and open minded. Stoic, and calm on the outside, sensitive, guarded inside. I'm a night owl and can be a smartass at times.

I try to treat others with compassion and respect. You never know what someone else may be struggling with. I feel respect can be given freely to an extent, but trust must be earned.

I may not always be direct, but I don't care for drama and I don't play games. Only board/video games. :) I have a strong sense of empathy and morals. Likely from years of loneliness and isolation. Because I know what it is to suffer, I don't wish it on anyone else. Because I know what its like to hate yourself, I know the power hate has when you let it into your life. Forgiveness and gratitude will get you much further in the long run.

I didn't have the luxury of close friends throughout high school, and for several years post school. Therefore my dating experience was pretty limited. I'm now lucky enough to have close friends, but gave up on dating for awhile in order to focus on friends first. Which has made dating a pretty intimidating prospect. I feel like I'm a very loving, caring, affectionate person trapped in my own insecurities. Hiding myself away, instead of putting myself out there and sharing it with someone else. But I think some will also find that as maybe a charming quality. A blank canvas ;)

I prefer rock, pop and edm when it comes to music. And action, thrillers, sci-fi and comedies for movies/tv. When it comes to sports I enjoy hockey, soccer, badminton and bowling. I love animals, and like dancing, although I'm not the greatest at it. Just looking for the right dance partner I guess. I also enjoy catching some rays at the beach, hiking, camping, snowmobiling, fishing and spending time with friends.

I consider myself a feminist, pro choice, liberal/democrat, lgbt friendly, etc. If you want to know more just ask.
What I’m doing with my life
Still in the process of figuring that out. I suppose trying to find my purpose, or place in the world, just like everyone else.
I’m really good at
I'm a good driver. Good at board and card games. I'm not the greatest conversationalist but I'm a good listener. Tough to pick what I'm really good at.
The first things people usually notice about me
I've been complimented on being friendly, easygoing and approachable. Which was a little bit of a shock to me, since I'm usually pretty shy, which I thought others interpreted as not being very friendly. The more you know.

Physically probably those sweet baby blues. ;)
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
Fave Bands: 30 Seconds to Mars, Alexisonfire, Foo Fighters, Lights, Linkin Park, Paramore, Sara Bareilles, Tegan and Sara

Fave TV Shows: Game of Thrones, The Flash, The Walking Dead, The Last Kingdom, Mr. Robot, Orphan Black, Rick and Morty, Bob's Burgers, Broad City, Conan, Jon Oliver, Ridiculousness, Hockey

Faves over the years: Lost, The Simpsons, Buffy, Breaking Bad, Supernatural, HIMYM, South Park, Fringe

Fave Movies: The Dark Knight trilogy, Star Trek, the X-Men series, The Winter Soldier, the Terminator series, The Sum of all Fears, Enemy of the State, Starship Troopers, Inception, the Bourne trilogy, Harry Potter, The Spectacular Now, 21 Jump Street, The 40 Year-Old Virgin, Zoolander, Superbad

Fave Book: A Song of Ice and Fire series, The Lord of the Rings

Fave Foods: I love fruit, especially apples. I've taken to liking spicier foods in the last couple years, I suppose my palete is growing.
The six things I could never do without
Family, Friends, Laughter, Music, Tv, Pizza
I spend a lot of time thinking about
I spend a lot of time thinking about spending a lot of time thinking about what a waste of time it is to spend so much time thinking about what I spend so much time thinking about.
On a typical Friday night I am
Out with friends, relaxing at home, going with the flow.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I don't really hate pants... I just really really really don't like them.

I played the lead in my high school's musical of Grease, which some people are surprised to hear, since I tend to gravitate more towards the shy side of the tree.
You should message me if
... you're intrigued. I'm always up for meeting new people.

I'm not really one to initiate first contact. So feel free to cast the first stone.
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