I don't like fancy things.
I want to cook for you.
I have about as much game as a 5-year-old.
I like your lazy eye, your stretchmarks, your love handles... All the things you're self conscious about are probably my favorite things about you.
Let's ride bikes.
I take care of stray cats, write, read, and exercise. I make music sometimes.
I'm the "Chef"/Kitchen Manager at Henke & Pillot. I cook gourmet bar food for drunk yuppies.
-Appreciating your quirks, flaws, and imperfections
-Super swole-ass biking legs
-That I act significantly less masculine than I look
Also, Kevin Bacon's warehouse punch-dance scene from Footloose.
-Something to read
-Pen and paper
-How terrible money is
-Syncopations and polyrhythms
-How I'm gonna fix all these stray cats
-How awful people are to each other
-Social constructs and how silly they are - i.e., gender roles and money
-Gender, sexuality, and how neither are binary
More often I'm either focused on the present or cringing about something stupid I did years ago.
If I'm feeling social, I'm probably either biking around with a backpack full of beer or sitting on a porch smoking cigarettes and making stupid jokes with good people.
I try to stay away from bars on the weekends. I don't like the crowds.
-You wanna talk about eating disorders and body image
-You can improvise musically
-You have two kayaks
-You wanna ride bikes and you're not afraid to take the lane