I like to cook breakfast, I dance when properly intoxicated and I find I can usually have something to share in just about any conversation.
I like to hold hands. I also trust whole heartedly until given a reason not to. ( I know, foolish) I have never cheated in a relationship. Ever. If I'm unhappy, I'll open my mouth.
I don't play games. I date selectively and usually one girl at a time. I'm not here to fill my time up with a bunch of bs.
I can be very sweet and thoughtful when I really like someone. I guess you could say I've had good luck in a bad way on this site. I met one who reminded me of all the great things in life but turns out we were on different paths. I'm looking for someone to connect with and who I make smile. That great feeling when your doing something and think, man, she'd like this, I can't wait to share it.
I've also made some good friends and NOT FWB either. True, honest, thoughtful people who have brightened my life.
So, I guess what I'm saying is don't give up and take every lesson for what it's worth.
I'm a hard worker and hustler. I have my toys as any man should :-). I'm self sufficient and a burden to no one. I don't bum rides, grocery money, cigarettes(don't smoke anyway) or leech off of people. I hate when I see a dude living off of his chick, can't stand it.
Specifically? One Saturday I got up early Saturday and drove. Just drove to find an adventure. I found some great roads that went into a couple hollows. I found an estate sale that had some great things cheap but, was saddened to see someone's belonging that had taken a lifetime to amass, sold. It reminded me that you can't take it with you. I stopped by a horse field and smoked a Black and Mild- lit by a match not a lighter, stopped and walked an abandoned cemetery. Found a headstone dated 1898- It was a TRUELY enjoyable day except for the few passing thoughts of how much better it could have been had it been shared.
Another, got up early with my kids, made kick ass breakfast burritos, sang at the top of our lungs to some "she's country" and then went out to Moraine for some Kayaking, lazy cloud watching and learned about the animals. I REALLY enjoy being a big kid with my kids. I still discipline and expect a lot, but we have a blast.
I'll tell you, I'm an EXCELLENT snuggler. Not all skinny and crush able, not all fat and smothering. JUST RIGHT I'm like the best Teddy Bear EVER.
Hmmm, what else? I hate this part, I don't know. I'm a functional adult. I'm on time, I say what I mean, I have a lot of hobbies.
I consider myself good at flirting ;-) I like to see smiles. There is nothing more intoxicating.
Fixing things other people give up on. No really, I mean it. I'm F'n MacGyver, lol
Capturing the moment. I try to Iive in the present and remember to cherish it as best I can.
Books~ Farenhiet 451, time machine, A Wrinkle in Time, The Acid House. I like to read, just don't find time.
Music: The Raconteurs, Cold War Kids, The Black Keys,The Clark's, Jearl Jam, John Lee Hooker, Nickleback(I love that people either Love or Hate them:)), Sublime, Bad Religion, Pink Floyd, Johnny Cash, Jason Aldean, Tom Petty, old Blues, classical. - Tom Petty- Here comes my girl- great song.
I played Sax, trumpet, tuba, bass guitar
Some of my favorite quotes:
If given six hours to chop down a tree, I will spend the first four sharpening the axe. -Abe Lincoln
“Watch your thoughts; they become words. Watch your words; they become actions. Watch your actions; they become habits. Watch your habits; they become character. Watch your character; it becomes your destiny.”— Unknown
"Rectum?! Damn near killed him!" - punch line.
"There are three sides to every story. His, Hers and the truth. "
Patience, laughter, apple pie, good friends, my kids, sunny days on a boat.
~ 1 disclaimer~ i'm a father first. It's going to take time to get to know me. I have my kids AT LEAST every other weekend. Having said that, it doesn't mean I can't get away. I love road trips, new experiences and laughing. I have responseabilities tho that I won't dodge. Someday I might regard you and yours the same way.
Ill pretty much admit anything. Lets see,
I prefer to keep myself well Groomed. I've been seriously thinking about some permanent hair removal in certain areas. Get Your Minds out of the gutters!!! My back!
See what I mean?! Just shameless!
Last but not least, You want to get to know a guy who Doesn't have a picture with his shirt off.:-)