40 Oakland, United States
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My self-summary
I am:
Athletic, Authentic, Bouncy, Expressive, Harmonious, Loving, Loyal, Melodic, Mindful, Playful, Polyamorous, Practical, Sarcastic, Silly, Somatic, Vulnerable, Witty, and Wily.

I enjoy:
Dancing to funk, electro-house, and soul. Ecstatic Dance. Most things seventies and eighties. Quoting Movies from the eighties. Hiking. Camping. Traveling to new places. Art and music festivals. Singing. Performance. Tantra Theater. Painting. Drawing. The color orange. Iyengar yoga. Meditation. Sportsball. Tennis. Golf. Football. Basketball. Running. Fantasy Football. Board Games. Thrifting. Making new friends. Nurturing friendships. Deep connection. Kissing. Touch. Cooking. Hosting parties of all kinds (dance, dinner, cuddle, game-night, sportsball event, movie). Sharing my home. Playing with my dog. Ceremony. Ritual. Landmark. Transformation. Becoming a better person. Living with purpose. And, laughing!
What I’m doing with my life
Creating a home space in Oakland that is an expression of my life and essence, and the setting for my current and future purposes (think transformational play, games, music, performance, experimentation, and possibly, a family). I am ready and looking for long-term partnership where having fun and spending quality time with lots of touch is the foundation!

Building myself back up after tearing it all down. After, 13 years, I've left the engineering-consulting for the sales. Focusing my energies into building a business as a Client Service Manager for an environmental/utility management software firm. It’s a whole new game and I’m enjoying its many challenges. It's already bringing out my talents as well as pushing my edges. More to come.

Most of my energy is going towards this new gig for 2016. Passions and interests in music, art and performance will take a back seat for the short-term. I do love singing, do it when I can and I am hoping to launch a singing project in 2016. Also, looking to pick up an electronic keyboard. Got any suggestions?

My go to fixes when I’m feeling down: singing, exercise, and connection to other human beings. If I do at least 2 out of 3 of these things every day, I am always a little bit happier than if not. If I get all three, well then, I am grateful and content.
I’m really good at
Getting distracted when I don't have a deadline.
Getting things done when I do have a deadline.
Balancing life so that I remain a dynamic person.
Being Patient. Ok, sometimes too patient.
Analyzing things. Seeing both sides to a situation.
Remembering what's important in the end.
The first things people usually notice about me
My height, my smile, and sometimes crazy bright fashion sense...
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
A few BOOKS:
The Watchers; The Fountainhead; The DaVinci Code; Guns, Germs, and Steel;The Four Agreements; Mindfulness in Plain English; Freakanomics, The Ethical Slut, Sex at Dawn...

The Sting; Raiders of the Lost Ark; Princess Bride; American Beauty; I heart Huckabees;

Fat Freddy's Drop (been really diggin it lately); Fort Knox Five; Maktub; Thievery Corporation; Daft Punk; Jurassic Five; Steely Dan; Jim Croce; Kruder and Dorfmeister; The Crystal Method; Lotus; Los Amigos Invicibles; A Tribe Called Quest; Marvin Gaye; Michael Franti and Spearhead; Toots and the Maytals; Galactic; P-Funk; Groove Armada; Breakbot; Mark Knofler; One Giant Leap, and any offshoot or derivative of FUNK!

Thai; Sushi; Indian; Italian; Mexican; Vegetarian; conscious healthy stuff, and of course, anything my dear 'ole mum makes...
The six things I could never do without
Human connection, exercise, music, healthy food, love, sex...
On a typical Friday night I am
Out enjoying great live music with friends.
Enjoying good conversation at a dinner party.
Catching up on some reading or sleep.
You should message me if
You can't wait for right now!

Or, if you are ethically non-monogamous, and are seeking playful, authentic relating with an open-hearted, open-minded man!