48 Saint Peter, United States
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My self-summary
UPDATE: I am in a relationship with a GREAT lady now. We will be married in May 2014. I am NOT interested in a fling, a hook up, a mistress, or an affair. I always welcome new friends though - particularly ones that my lady and I equally enjoy. I'm not going to change the rest of my profile - if you are looking for a couple to hang out with, this should give you an idea of who I am, and I can vouch for the fact that my lady is amazing.

Hi, and thanks for taking the time to look at my profile. Let me start by saying that honesty and communication are huge for me, and I am looking for my "last first date." If you are looking for the same, then please read on.

I enjoy doing things outside. I like to fish occasionally, ride 4 wheeler, shoot paintball, deer hunt, camp, and bon fires. Those are things I enjoy, but unfortunately haven't been able to do them as much as I would like. I don't like doing any them though when its hot and miserable out or you are being eaten alive by mosquitoes!

I can manage my way around a kitchen, and have at least a few meals I can make that generally get appreciative comments.

I love watching movies - action/adventure, some drama, sci/fi or fantasy - I even like "chick flicks" like romantic comedies.

I enjoy most music, even rap. Country is ok as long as its not too "twangy". While music is fun, I don't wither if it isn't playing. Also, I'm not going to bust out in some wild dance moves if a good tune comes on!

I love hugs, holding hands, and kissing. I love massage - getting them is fine, but I love to give them as well. I am definitely on the touchy/feely side of the spectrum.

I tend to be a homebody, but am generally glad for an excuse to get out and do something.

I am not into the bar scene. I'm not into playing games. The truth may not always be what I like to hear, but its always what I want to hear.

What I'm looking for: I am looking for that person I can spend the rest of my life with. I'm beginning to think that many of us are approaching this dating all wrong. It seems like we are out there looking for the perfect partner. If we find someone isn't perfect - we get lazy and move on to the next person. I'm as guilty as everyone else in that regard. I think that instead, we should find someone with whom we share some common building blocks. Rather than finding the perfect partner, we just need to find a partner to build a perfect relationship with. That takes time, effort, and patience. Any relationship can work when everything is going great. I want to find someone that is as willing as I am to go the extra mile when things take a dip.

And for the final details to polish this profile - I am a sane, law abiding person. I don't stalk. I treat women with dignity and respect. I don't drink to excess or do drugs. I am STD free, AND plan to stay that way! I have also passed (with flying colors) a comprehensive back ground check - required for my job.

First Date

I have a season pass to Valley Fair - that could be an awesome first date! If we want to do something goofy and out of the ordinary, we could go bowling (those sexy bowling alley shoes!!!), go trap or target shooting, look for treasures in thrift stores, or pretty much anything that seems like fun!

A first date is probably equal parts nervousness and excitement, with a dose of social awkwardness thrown in. I'm open to anything that let's us get to know each other, but also provides a bit of a distraction to help smooth over a moment of silence.