50London, United Kingdom
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My self-summary
I've now married to a wonderful man who I met here on Okcupid - yes the match mathematics does work, I think this is a great site - having tried every other site OkCupid came up trumps. Top Tips: do ALL the questions HONESTLY, date everyone with an over 90% match.

We both still have profiles here with the intention of meeting folk with high matches to extend our circle of friends.
If you're a high (90+%) match WE'd like to meet you for a drink.


I enjoy getting lost in a conversation with a lover or friend over a great meal, and finding ourselves with upended chairs on tables around us.

Going to a concert, play or exhibition and chatting about it over a great glass of wine.

Working with one of my distressed patients and helping them put their world to rights

The buzz after going for a swim or a heavy work out.

All better than copper kettles and fluffy kittens!
What I’m doing with my life
Working in SW London setting up a new team - keeping my self fit and hanging out with mates
I’m really good at
Solving problems, sticking at it when things get tough, caring for the people I love - and I'm a good cook.
The first things people usually notice about me
The first thing people probably notice is that I'm clear direct engaging and not displeasing to the eye
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
I'm a big SciFi, and natural philosophy fan - A Reynolds and I M Banks are my favourite for Scifi and Harris, Hitchins, Grayling and Diamond for the latter.

I have very broad musical tastes depending on my mood - currently enjoying Carly Commando, Eric Hutchinson and Bach Motets.
Six things I could never do without
Hot shower and a cup of good quality coffee in the morning
A good book on the go
A challenge at work
Hanging out with friends/lovers
A comfy bed at night
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Planning - solving problems - being grateful
On a typical Friday night I am
I'll go for a swim and then relax with friends over a bottle of wine
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
That I'm a softy at heart
You should message me if
You go for tall dark fit guys - you enjoy a good chat about ideas, you're warm kind gentle and caring.
The two of us