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My self-summary
Which did you do first? Look at pics or read this? Before you bother with either, ask yourself why you are on OKC. To make contact?

I'm a thinker. I have one of those engineer type brains. I like to be creative when I have time and I love a challenge (fixing/creating something). Everyday I strive to learn something either from someone or self taught about myself, things, or how-to stuff.

I am a very loving and giving person to people I can trust with it. Otherwise I'm rather reserved. I'm rather outgoing but usually start out shy and quiet. I have a great sense of humor. Enjoy some sarcasm but not big on dry humor. If that makes sense.

I'm not in search of "the one" or anything serious. I do have a partner (Sambalina_Alice) but neither of us limit ourselves. Expanding where we each direct our love is enjoyable.

I like all sorts of things. Yet my main interests are rarely permanent. I walk through life exploring things that interest me. Some stick for a while, some don't. Right now I've picked work to take up most of my time. So I guess at the moment my interests are work, sleep, eat. As that tames down I look forward to making some metal sculpture, playing with DJing EDM, making more fire art, hosting a party, camping, travel and spending more time with some dearly missed friends.

I'm a better listener than I used to be. I love giving massages. I like to make things out of wood and metal when I can. I'm constantly working on being a better loving person. And I'm actually very honest (even to my detriment sometimes)

I'm looking for like minded folks who share my mind set in life, the world, heart (and in bed).
What I’m doing with my life
I'm a carpenter and Practical Special Effect tech in TV/Film and when work comes, it comes in droves. But I love my job and am very grateful for it. When I'm not working I'm spending time with special people doing special things. I feel I live a pretty fulfilled life.
I’m really good at
Working with my hands.
Problem solving.
Massage (that means sex)
Fixing things
Throwing a party
The first things people usually notice about me
Friggin' dimples
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
Love a good comedy or mind fuck movie.
Music is everywhere and very eclectic. Primarily Classic Rock & Electronic. Lately I've been enthralled with the music on 87.7. Not like me normally but I'm digging a lot of the new music.
Food? Everything but stinky fish, ginger, and weird shit like bugs or daredevil stuff.
Books? I'm not a reader. While I can read very well and write with the best, it's just not my thing. So I've only read a few books. None of which were monumental for me. Manuals on the other hand, those I'll read. Geek alert.
Six things I could never do without
My Daughter
My immediate and chosen family
My iPhone
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Inventions. Art ideas. What I can do with "this thing". Things. Who actually reads this. How often this answer changes.
On a typical Friday night I am
Decompressing from the week.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
Sometimes I enjoy a good glee club anthem at full volume!
You should message me if
...you have the courage. Can intrigue or enlighten me. Can turn me on in a sapiosexual sort of way.
...you play with girls n boys too. Realize by now I don't get romantic with men. Am not pretending to be adventurous.
...your body turns you on. Are your own person. Have a soul and know how to embrace it.
...you say "Yes, please!" in bed.
The two of us