45 Winnipeg, Canada
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My self-summary
Seriously? Wow... Self-summaries are hard. How do we not say too much but yet say just enough to give the reader a glimpse into the inner self and fan the flame of desire? I'll do my best. = )

Who am I? I've been told I'm fun... I've been told I'm smart and even "good looking." I guess that's open to opinion & speculation.

I'm a bit of a jack of all trades. I'm a bit buttoned up sometimes - suits and networking and power lunches... and sometimes I'm a parent and the uber responsible one... and sometimes I'm just me.

I'm very adventurous and I love to try new things, from an evening at the symphony to an adventure race to a night at a fetish club - appropriate dress required in any case!

I'm always looking for ways to fit physical activity into my schedule and I try to get at least 30 minutes of aerobic exercise each day. I especially love cycling, with swimming as a close second. Tennis anyone? I've got a racquet, but I'm not very good! ; )

I'm all about summer - long days at the beach, swimming in the surf, soaking up the sun, sunsets, campfires and campsongs. Boating & canoeing are especially a pleasure.

I like to read and I like movies, though I rarely watch tv. No time. SF/ Fantasy is my favourite genre, though I love pop science and the Discovery Channel.

I am devoted to my work and to the ones I love. I try to keep balance in my life. I am traditional in some ways and completely not so in others. I am rock and roll on the inside & GQ on the outside.

I am open minded, perhaps at times more than I should be. I am not very moral, but I am very ethical and believe all people and creatures have inherent rights that should be respected.

I believe in honesty and trust and kindness. I believe in "Be excellent to each other & party on dude!"
What I’m doing with my life
Improving it. Expanding it. Exploring it. Life has so many joys to sample.
I’m really good at
I know a little bit about a lot of things. I'm pretty good at many things. I'm really good at connecting with others... communication... turning a phrase...improvising... making people laugh. Writing. I can fix almost anything and I like to build things. I like to cook and I seem to be pretty good at it. I am a good parent, or at least my daughter seems to think so. I'm good at surviving off the land and I love camping out in the wilderness! I love swimming and I'm good at it - but prefer to swim in a lake or ocean. I like to sing and have done so on many local stages. I'm really good at finding the beauty in life. I am a good lover. I give great massages! I like the lotus position and I'm really good at it! = )
The first things people usually notice about me
Probably my smile. I smile a lot. I'm often asked, "Why are you smiling? and often my answer is, "Why not?" = )
I've also been told I have "Bedroom" brown eyes... B )
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
Books - Lord of The Rings (LOTR); Harry Potter (HP); Pride, Predjudice & Zombies; The Ethical Slut.
Movies - LOTR; HP; Heavy Metal; Conan the Destroyer; Wall-E; Finding Nemo.
Shows - I don't watch much TV. The Simpsons and Discovery channel. The Rocky Horror Picture Show at the concert hall was the best stage "show" I've seen yet!
Music - Definitely a 50's - 70's classic rock fan, though I've been getting into some of the recent dance music. I like many genres from classical to hip hop.
Food - Sushi!!!!! and Boon Burgers - you gotta try one!
The six things I could never do without
Other than basic necessities and my daughter...

Shared intimacy
Time for introspection
Moments to walk among green things
A task to accomplish
Hedonistic pleasure
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Lots of things... My job; the future; my family; responsibilities; desires; ways to have fun; hobbies; ways to self-improve...
Lately I've been thinking about the seasons. I'm definitely a summer person. I've also been thinking about meeting interesting people who are open to alternative or non-traditional lifestyles and practices, especially polyamoury.
On a typical Friday night I am
Friday's are a mix... sometimes it's a night with my daughter. Sometimes it's guys night out. Sometimes I'll go for a few with collegues after work.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
Hmmm - I think I just did that two questions ago. lol! Also, I prefer to tan naked.
You should message me if
If we share similar interests. If you like to laugh & have fun! If you like my picture and want to see my other side. = ) If you like high brow humor and intellectual pursuits. If you are open to meeting a new friend and sharing something of yourself. If you like sex and believe that it can be a world of exploration and adventure; that it can be an inspired creation of artistic expression; that it is the most fun you can have with your pants off! lol!