Dreamer81382
34 North Hills, United States
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My self-summary
Hi, my name is Justin, nice to meet you.
What I'm looking for in a relationship is really just someone to share life with; I'm a weird person who's trying find that unique someone whose weirdness matches up with my own. I'm happy going out, hanging out, staying in, or just being together doing nothing.

So, let me lay my cards out on the proverbial table. I'm completely Vanilla, I've got a bit of a pudge, I have some self-esteem issues, I don't think Chivalry is dead, and I am absolutely terrible when it comes to writing that first initial message (I either overthink it too much, or hold back and say too little). If all that is OK with you, then please keep reading.
What I’m doing with my life
I teach and I geek, that is my life.

I have an amazing job with Mad Science; Teaching Science of all types to kids in schools across L.A. and Ventura Counties (My Mad Scientist name is "Justin Time and Space").

When I'm not working, I'm either pursuing my joy of entertaining people and bringing smiles to their faces...or I'm doing some kind of geeky endeavor; whether it's Disneyland, Conventions, Cosplay Events, NERF Battles, Gaming, or an all-night session of D+D.
I’m really good at
Being dependable and being a good listener (I'm a Hufflepuff). I often put others before myself, I will always keep my promises, and I will always go out of my way to be there for someone who's depending on me.

I'm also a pretty good singer/dancer/performer/improviser/voice actor/cuddler/empath/wizard/cleric/time lord/cook/trivia master/cat/dog/benevolent overlord/etc.
The first things people usually notice about me
I'm a big guy (6'2" with a wide build).

I also look much younger than I really am.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
Being somewhat of an 'Uber-Geek', I've got an interest in nearly everything. So much so, that It would actually be easier to list the things that are NOT my favorites than to list the things that are. But, here is a basic sampling.

Books - Sci-Fi, Fantasy, and Comedy mosty. Some of my most enjoyable reads have been via Arthur C. Clarke, Stephen King, Michael Chrichton, Issac Asimov, Gregory Maguire, J.K. Rowling, Jon Stewart, Stephen Colbert. and Douglas Adams.

Movies - Hands down, my Favorite Movie of all time is 'American Beauty'; but do give me a good Animated Film or 'Geeky' Movie any day. However, you will be very hard pressed to get me to see any kind of Horror/Thriller/Gore/Disturbing/Shock movie.

TV Shows - I'm a Whovian, a Sherlockian, a Browncoat, a Trekkie (goes through list of membership cards) and so much more. If it's good and geeky, I'll watch it; If it's good and animated, I'll watch it for sure. If you mention it, chances are good that I've seen it, heard of it, or watched it in it's entirety. Probably, one of my favoritest shows of all time is Phineas and Ferb.

Music - I like pretty much everything EXCEPT Rap, Hip-Hop, R+B, Country, and Metal. I always love a good musical, and my mp3 collection is very eclectic (everything from Anime and Aquabats to Zeppelin and Zydeco). My Car radio is often tuned to KROQ, NPR, or Classical KUSC.

Food - My love of Cheese may actually border on addiction... and I absolutely love Seafood, Mexican, and Italian cooking.
The six things I could never do without
* Love
* The Support of my family and friends
* The Internet
* Newton's Three Laws of Physics
* The means to survive in a capitalist society
* Laughter
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Life, The Universe, Time And Relative Dimensions In Space, and Everything else in between.
On a typical Friday night I am
Home, most likely. I don't usually go out much unless it's gaming with friends, running errands, or catching a movie. You'll often find me on my computer, playing games, or watching TV... So, give me a reason to go out.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I was born on Friday the 13th (interpret that as you will)
You should message me if
Look, I understand how hard it is out there for women in the dating world. Your safety, integrity, and future can all be at risk with the wrong guy... and, I could sit here and make all the promises about how I'm not like the other guys, how I'm different, and how you don't need to be cautious around me; but it wouldn't make a difference.

I'm at the point in my life where I want to find that special someone and spend the rest of my life with them. I don't want to hurt anybody, nor do I want to be hurt; and I'm just as tired of the dating scene as you probably are. I wish it were just as simple as telling someone "Hey, I like you, let's go on a date".

So, I'll say this: If you've gotten this far, then there's probably something about me that you found interesting. If that is the case, then just send me a message. It doesn't have to be anything complex or eloquent, just a simple "hello" to begin a conversation. If you do that, then I'll know there's interest; not a date, and certainly not a commitment, but interest. We'll talk, we'll ask each other questions to get to know each other, we'll take it at whatever pace is comfortable for you.

I don't want to play games, I just want to meet someone that I can settle down with. This doesn't mean I'm looking for immediate marriage or kids (that all takes time), it just means I want to meet someone who's also in it for the long run. So, if you're interested, then just let me know. If a connection develops, then great; if not, then no harm, no foul, we move on.

With that said, I hope to hear from you soon :)
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