36 Toronto, Canada
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My self-summary
I'm returning to this site in the hope that I can find someone who can complement and challenge me. Where are all the interesting, non-boring people?
Someone warm, compassionate and totally out there like me.
Someone who also feels that compulsive need to create.
Someone who would need to take breaks from their own projects to puff one or two and cuddle or giggle and laugh until the source of the laughter is long forgotten and tears roll down smiling cheeks.
Someone who is both muse and critic.
Someone with a wicked grin, who is a good person with an evil sense of humour.
If that sounds like you, then message me. Having been somewhat disillusioned here before I'm rarely on here and it's rarer that I message anyone.
What I’m doing with my life
Aside from getting back on this silly site after a break-- I've been doing a lot of singing and songwriting, getting a whole new musical project and sound together... Rediscovering how happy singing can make me. Also I've been trying to get a bunch of paintings ready to show at a friend's restaurant in the east end. In general I've been spending all my time indulging my passions and maybe not quite enough time indulging passion.
I've been working as a scenic artist, it's tons of fun-- I like being able to apply my skills and getting paid to get messy.
I've also been getting very inspired by Victorian architecture (got a bit of a fetish for Victorian design in general) and have been planning on taking some courses and starting a restoration company.
I’m really good at
Painting all kinds of things, singing and writing songs, laughing at stupidity and trying to make sense of how crazy the world is, cracking jokes, speaking in non-sequiturs.
Listening, having empathy for others, brainstorming and coming up with silly ideas,
Making food for and with people, usually with a joint hanging out of my mouth or maybe a glass of something tasty.
Communicating with cats... We understand each other and always get along. I think I must've been one in a previous life.
The first things people usually notice about me
-I'm covered in paint. (although I do clean up quite nicely) I tend to get "Oh, so you're a painter" quite a bit when out and about. Duh! What's better is when the fashionistas ask me sincerely where I got my (technicolour) shoes. I'd sell them, but they're one-offs.
-I'm an easygoing compassionate crazy person. (I mean part-time crazy person, not professional... You know, for fun)
-Whatever my hair/facial hair/lack thereof happens to be doing at the time (I've been accused of being a chameleon)
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
I like to read a lot of non-fiction, about science, history, the origins of things. Also I've been trying to keep up with the soap opera that is the Ice & Fire series... My latest fixation is HP Lovecraft! I picked up a new collection of all his dream stories that's ideal for getting lost in on the TTC. It's been responsible for me missing my stop more than any other book already.

Not much music or TV lately... I've been doing a lot of songwriting and it's part of my creative process.

Food is awesome! It's full of nutrients. I recommend it highly. Making food is tons of fun, especially when you're cooking for or with someone special.
If you can prove yourself worthy and inspiring then I'll gladly make delicious food for you.
The six things I could never do without
-Art/music and the creative process
-The sunset out my window (best view in town)
-Laughter (especially when you forget what you were laughing about)
-Toronto and the variety found within and a metropass to get around it (this relates somewhat to the above and below points)
-Yummy food!
-Or just a well sharpened chef's knife, pencil, paintbrush tip, scrapers and wit and I can make whatever I need to get by.
I spend a lot of time thinking about
- -Music that I'm working on-- it keeps me from getting other radio-pop stuck in my head.
- -How if I were a cat and I had a cardboard box and a takeout bag that smells a little bit like food I could be happy forever.
- -Analyzing ads and things that I see on a superficial level so that their actual branding message doesn't sink in.
- -What strange things unusual people on the TTC or around town happen to be doing.
On a typical Friday night I am
Either working on some new music or art, or maybe meeting up with friends to go out... Or work on music or art together.
I'm always open to new suggestions though! Just try me.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I loved the movie "Junior"... Hearing the Governator say "I'm Pregnant" will make me laugh for a lifetime.
Ok... enough about horrible guilty pleasures...
You should message me if
-You appreciate or make art & music; I find individuality and creativity to be the most sexy qualities in women. (Especially if you play the cello, bonus points for having curves like one.) Maybe you just straight-up *are* a work of art.

-You think "paint under the nails" is a particularly sexy look... Or perhaps you wear said look yourself! Any girl looking happy covered in paint or in the middle of creating something will have special powers over me

-You know a cool swear you want to share or possibly you think you can impress me in some other fashion, or you just want to smoke a joint and laugh sometime without the heaviness of "dating".

-To be frank, I'm rarely on this site at all so if you got this far and are an interesting, unique, independent woman, then by all means please do send me a message!