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My self-summary
Err, firstly I'm an OkCupid Virgin!! (so help me out here...)
Guess I've been 'on' this site for a little while, but I'd hardly say I'm an active user, & in truth, I've never/ rarely seen anyone that is my kinda Girl...

I've tried to be as honest as poss with the Q's & A's (but hard sometimes as BOTH answers are applicable, yet only 1 can be picked!)
I scooted thru, answering loads of Q's quickly, so don't take anything as an absolute deal-breaker!! Just ask me!

I'm a pro drummer that's played in lots of bands, & been in way too many crazy situations (usually band related!),
- I'd say I've definitely been to the School Of Life,
& have got a few good/ bad/ ugly (but all funny!) stories to tell - campfire or no campfire!

I'm not addicted to anything (except food, sleep & air)
I am confident, but not arrogant (there's a difference!)
I try not to beat around the bush - sod PC-ness - just tell it like it is!!
I know what I'm doing MOST of the time.....but not ALL the time!!!

My influences are very broad - be it music/ food/ holidays/ going out etc
I'm not very fussy & can usually find good/ positive aspects in pretty much everything!
I'm a "pint is half FULL" kinda guy... ;o)

If I think of anything more, I'll be back!

Update: I just looked at my 'Personality' summary, & it kinda leads you to believe that I'm an Extroverted Drug-crazed Pervert(!!?!) that's not driven by Love one jot. NOT true, at all!!
I'm definitely driven by Love - I've had it truly, before...& I really want it again, whether it finds me, or I find......you.
So, for the record: OKC Computer: FAIL.
Hopefully that clears that up.
Now, where's my vial of crack & my greased pitbull... ;o)
What I’m doing with my life
Drumming my way through life,
Meeting all sorts of crazy people,
Inspiring some,
Getting through the tuff times & various hurdles life throws at you,
& learning from them!
& Of course, doing it all with a big grin on my face! :o)

Searching for 'The One'...
I’m really good at
Drumming (d'uh!)
Being positive,
Inspiring people,
Communication & talking with fellow Humans!
Raising the vibe in a room,
The first things people usually notice about me
My Smile!
I've been told my teeth & eyes (apparently!)
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
Pretty much ALL movies - Gangster/ Monster/ Life/ Alien/ Crime/ War/ Comedy/ Space/ Relationship/ Cartoon...
Oh, & the ROCKY box set...
Oh, & Girly Rom-Coms, & I cry in Finding Nemo. (I usually cry in most films...)

Mexican........ & Sushi!
But failing that, I'll eat ANYTHING!

Any Rockstar/ Pornstar/ Gangster Auto/Biography
Any book by Dave Courtney (If you know of him, that's cool. If you know him, that's cooler. If you've been to his house, please come to mine...)

I dig anything from Heavy Metal to chilled Folk.
(& everything in between - be it Hip-Hop/ Dance/ DnB/ Hardcore/ Rap/ Country/ Blues/ Folk/ Cross-over/ Ragga/ Reggae etc etc etc)
Six things I could never do without
Rock n' Roll
(that's more than 6, but who cares!)
I spend a lot of time thinking about
~ Other peoples stupidity & ignorance, & why they can't see their stupidity & ignorance for themselves, but then, this is what makes them stupid & ignorant!!
(I do also work with a lot of bands, & they're all mad in this business let. me. tell. you...)

~ How to pimp up my flat even more...

~ What the hell am I actually doing...today, & in life...!

~ Whether I should mow my lawn...

& Is it cool to have my own jacuzzi, with no-one to share it with... :o(
(I do, & I don't...)

I want to meet this person:
"Girls who glide, need Guys that make them thump..."
(If you know where this quote is from, I'll consider a ring...)
On a typical Friday night I am
With me, there's no such thing as 'typical'...

I could be either:
Playing a show,
Going to a club/ pub,
On my sofa with a bottle of Red/ bottle of Vodka, + the DVD remote
Doing emails,
...but usually, it's a kind of mixture of all of the above!!
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
Well, in Feb 2009 I was dumped from a 10 year relationship (the day after our 10-yr anniversary - niiiiice!).
It took pretty much all of '09 to get over the shock, pain & horror, & then most of 2010 to recover in general (+ financially - I had to pay all the mortgage too..).

So here we are now, onwards & upwards - let's see what happens...! :o)
I'd say I have a f*cking brilliant life, but no-one to share it with... :o(
You should message me if
You've read this far & are still awake!!!
The two of us