36Grapevine, United States
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My self-summary
I'm an athletic, fun-loving, nerdy, married businessman in Grapevine looking to get out and enjoy more of what life has to offer.

Still have your attention? Cool.

My amazingly wonderful wife Angie_fire and I have been together for over a decade and have had our share of incredible adventures; however, one adventure we decided to skip was having children. Because of this, many of our friends are moving on down a different direction than us and we are hoping to find new like-minded people to experience life with. If you would like to talk to my better half directly, please feel free to; you never know if you'll hit it off unless you ask.

I myself am extremely energetic and fun with a heavy focus on avoiding drama and just being happy. I started working out very heavily last year and adopted it fully into my life; I now find myself in better physical shape than I've ever been and I am looking to take advantage of that both in and out of the bedroom.

I also work a fairly high stress job that makes my free time very appreciated. I love to get away from the spreadsheets and just talk and laugh over a beer (or better yet, whiskey). I work so I can live... I don't live just to work.
What I’m doing with my life

I know, this is a cliched response to an honest question, but it's fitting for me at the moment. I work a 9-5 job that gives me a lot of stability to explore the rest of life, so that's what I'm doing. I found my emotional and moral core many years ago and I know who I am deep down inside, so now its time to see how much of life I can get a taste of before age puts too much distance between me and the stupidity of youth.
I’m really good at
I write, both code and fiction, which I've been told is an odd combination.

Last year I started seriously hitting the gym. I love the freedom my new physique gives me and am finding myself game for any new activity that will push my limits. You want to rock climb, skydive, train for a competition, dance any kind of dance you can think of? I'm game, just let me know.

I love video games also and have logged a simply unhealthy amount of time in them over the years. While I don't play nearly as much as I used to, I have every modern system hooked up in my house and a beast of a PC. /nerd
The first things people usually notice about me
I've been told my eyes stand out, but I'm not sure if that is the first thing someone notices or just the one thing they keep mentioning.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
Too diverse to name, but here are a few I love

Books: The Name of the Wind/The Wise Man's Fear; 20,000 Leagues Under the Sea; Treasure Island; Harry Potter series; Dragonlance books.

Movies: Star Wars; Cabin in the Woods; Catch Me if You Can; IP Man; Love Actually

TV: Game of Thrones; Walking Dead; Justified; It's Always Sunny in Philadelphia; Archer; Bob's Burgers; The Soup; Breaking Bad; Futurama

Music: Grew up on country; learned to love the 90's; Fell into Daft Punk style electronica; currently listening to deep dubstep and dance.

Food: Pretty controlled diet these days to stick with my workout routine but I love myself some pizza.
Six things I could never do without
and Whiskey
I spend a lot of time thinking about
The last thing I talked to someone about.

No, really. I love deep conversation and I love to hear other people's perspectives and opinions. After a great conversation, I can spend hours just considering what was discussed and deciding whether or not to change my own perspective.

You should always be open to new things.
On a typical Friday night I am
I never know what I'm doing on a Friday night. I could be out at a club until it closes or watching a movie at home. I might be playing a video game all night or just hanging out at a bar drinking with friends.

The best part: I never normally know what I'm doing on a Friday night until Friday afternoon.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
Hmmm... lets make this into a game to see if you actually got this far down the profile. One of the three things below is a very private, true thing about me. The other two are completely false fabrications of my own imagining.

1) I revealed my very first crush in a letter I wrote to my former teacher after moving halfway through the school year. She read it in front of the class and embarrassed the girl to death. (third grade)

2) I still make my own sound effects every time I pick up anything remotely close to being an airplane shape. Everything from rockets firing to machine guns blazing away. (and it is awesome)

3) Once when I was 21, I let a gay friend of mine kiss me, for no other reason but to make sure I was not gay. (It turns out I was a weird kid and am certainly not gay)
You should message me if
If you want to get to know me.
If you want me to get to know you.
If you just need someone to vent to.
You are using me to get to my wife. ;)

I love connecting with women, whether sex is involved or not, so even if you are just looking for conversation, you should drop me a line.

Basically, if you've made it this far, you should probably say hello.
The two of us