Ok, on to me. I am a bit, how do I put this.. I have a wicked sense of humor sometimes, I'm blunt but honest to a fault, and I'm sarcastic. I know that all may make me seem like an ass, but honestly, I'm not. I'm not the type to hurt a person just for the sake of hurting them. If I'm asked if a pair of jeans make your butt look big, though, and they do.. I just always assume you'd want to know before going out in them and someone else saying it instead.
I'm not the best on social pacification or grace sometimes. My mind just doesn't work that way. I can not understand a good portion of the people I meet, who want to put up pretenses and present a false front. It's not a judgement, I just really can not understand them, or why they do it. I know girls fart. I know women have a sex drive. I know sometimes people swear. I know people like to laugh, like to be lazy, and sometimes even bitch just for bitchings sake. It happens, it is what it is, so.. what's the problem? To many people try to be perfect, but porcelain dolls are only good for filling dusty cabinets in my mind. Give me a woman with a stupid funny TV show, some stale chips, and too many late nights and I'm a happy camper.
I tend to get along quite well with people. I don't know why. People just tend to like me for some reason. I think it's some deep seeded glutton for punishment syndrome or something, but it may just be that many of my sarcastic comments are tappered and tempered with a slow smile and a tilt of my head.
I still go with the glutton theory.
Ok, nuff. :)
I've seen bad in this world, and I know some days are worse then others. I truly believe though that any problem- if it can't be solved - you just have to wait it out. Everything heals, and things always get better sometime. Drama and stress just make the waiting all that much more miserable.
I think people sense that about me right from the start, and feel at ease around me very quickly.I can't say for sure, but after 40 years of living as me, it seems to be the one constant regardless of the person I meet.
Now music.. Well, my favorite right off is Alice Cooper, followed by bands such as Hinder, Theory of a Deadman, and even ICP. But I also count Trans-Siberian Orch and Within Temptation just as high as I do Alice.. So it varies. I've been known to listen to most anything from Andrew Lloyd Webber to AC/DC in the same evening. Not a huge fan of Rap or Country, despite having lived in both CA and TN at points in my life :)
2. Family. They've been there through some terrible episodes in my life, when no one else could stand in the fire.
4. Knowledge. I thrive on it, I embrace it, I devour it.
6. Coffee. Coffee. Cofffee.
That's just wrong. Frilly panties and pleated skirts are only for the weekend. And never outside of my bedroom!
Err, sorry. Actually, I think about everything. Constantly. Always. I watch a commercial, I think about who the target audience is and how they intended to influence or create a faux relationship with that audience. I watch a show on the missing books of the bible, I research them and try to piece together where they belonged. I watch the cat and think about what she's thinking.
I just always think.
I'm not a very good censor, or very good at being inhibited. I'll talk about anything, quite seriously. Physically- I don't understand inhibition with a lover. Oral? Isn't that just a normal part of foreplay? Anal? I'd rather not be the catcher. I'm.. sensitive. Shower? Sex on your period? Sure, why not? There's hot water, right? I view sex the same way I view most things. Why worry, just enjoy. Life is complicated enough without having to superpose mysterious worries on top of it all.
Ummm.. Ok, I can't think of more, maybe because I'm not afraid to disclose most anything. So there's nothing really too private for to discuss, as long as a person is able to handle the conversation.