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My self-summary
***Update(As if you were waiting for one, lol): I have met an amazing woman on this site. I am in love with her and no longer looking to date anyone else. I have not removed my profile yet, as I have made some great connections here and don't feel that I need to right now, for the following reason: To inspire others that it is possible to find what you are looking for here, if you plant the seeds for it. That could run the gamut from playful connection to soulmate connection. It is possible, and actually inevitable, if you plant the right seeds. If that makes you curious, and you would like to discuss, drop me a line! Regardless, may you find what you are looking for. **** <3
I am a genuinely happy, fun and funny. I am a giver, a good listener, a loyal friend and a lover. No, really.
I am intelligent without being snarky. I do have a wicked sense of humor, consider yourself warned.
I play well with others. I am a work in progress, progressing nicely. I am usually smiling, frequently laughing.
I am currently undergoing an ego-ectomy; I have high enough self esteem that the docs think I can live without ego life-support. It is a complicated procedure and may take awhile, but my team is optimistic.
What I’m doing with my life
I am working joyfully on my spiritual practice.
I work hard at my job, we do some very interesting work.
I serve others to increase my capacity to serve others. Which makes me happier...get it?
I’m really good at
Problem solving
Being a dork
The first things people usually notice about me
I am tall. That's usually the first thing out of people's mouths.
You can sense that I am open and kind.
Good thing you are meeting me now. Ask me about how I used to be an @#$hole!
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
Liberation in the Palm of Your Hand, Pabongka Rinpoche
Hope for the Flowers, Trina Paulis
How Yoga Works, Geshe Michael and Lama Christie Mcnally
The Stand, Stephen King
The Confessions of Max Tivoli, Andrew Sean Greer

The Imaginarium of Dr. Parnassus
Big Night

Leonard Cohen
Arcade Fire
Mos Def

Yummy food.
Six things I could never do without
Hmm, "could never" is really settin' oneself up to test that, so I am going to sidestep this one..."would rather" not do without:
The Dharma
My Teacher
My Sangha
I spend a lot of time thinking about
On a typical Friday night I am
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I have danced with my shadow, it can't jump out and scare me...c'mon, you are going to have to reach out to me to learn more.
You should message me if
You would like to meet a man who knows how to be a gentleman, if you prefer the company of a man to that of a boy, if you like to laugh, and if you would like someone to complement, not complete you.
If you like to share, or want to practice sharing to learn how.
The two of us