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My self-summary
Inquisitive, romantic, intellectual farmer searching for generous soul to share a commitment empowering others and serving community.

Some people find me deep. I'm still trying to find the bottom. Why am I coming across so many unpaired mismatched socks?
What I’m doing with my life
I have begun co-writing the next chapter in my life's story after completing the last twenty-year chapter of professional commitment, building a successful business, and fortuitous exit. Looking forward to reading those books i've bought but shelved, and living on the land with my partner.

Working and playing with my friends and neighbors to manifest an artistic, intellectual, healing community in a gorgeous rural setting along the Natchez Trace is my dream come true. Body, Mind, and Soul complemented with good ole fashioned Western virtue and empirical science. Let's explore the minimal amount of structure a community needs in order to create healthy space for its members [end of recruitment ad].

I am trying to slow down after a workaholic life. Still there is a companion-shaped hole in it. I know there is someone out there who fits it snuggly. Ahhhh
I’m really good at
Seeing different perspectives
The first things people usually notice about me
Ask them. Or better yet, tell me.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
Hermann Hesse's Siddhatha and Glass Bead Game. One flew over the Cookoos Nest.

Food glorious food. I I'm not picky. It's more important who I'm eating with. I prefer natural, local fare, the table for two by the window in a hippie veggie joint, or better yet, munching on just picked carrots or radishes plucked from my fields with you on a blanket in the bed of my truck.
But I'll polish off your cheese-fries if you don't keep an eye on me. Say, are you gonna eat that?
Six things I could never do without
Morning walks
Spring water directly from Momma Earth
[You, once I fall in love] (Strike that as it is shamefully possessive)
A healthy degree of freedom.

I believe there can be no relationship without a loss of freedom. Healthy freedom requires a mutually understood definition of foundational terms. And that definition limits freedom. Get it? I'm working on getting it.
I spend a lot of time thinking about
How my personal actions can effect the happiness of others. I enjoy reading,, NYT, Forward. My mind is like a rodent's incisors that would grow up into the poor critter's brain if he weren't always wearing them down chopping on something. I require something to read when I'm not making love, working or mindfully aware.

Walking outdoors and nature's sensuality slow down my monkey-brain. The so-called New Spirituality assumes that mind is bad and ought to be censured with meditation. Plenty of time to not-think when I'm dead! Hey meditation is great for rejuvenation, stress reduction, and to receive Intention, but thinking is my breath, work is my prayer. I try to know myself and flow with it.
On a typical Friday night I am
Shoot! Is it Friday already? What do you wanna do? Go out with friend(s), curl up with a good read, make reservations for tomorrow night's dinner and show?

I'd rather be with my new gal and start trying to unravel the mystery of her, knowing Ill never succeed.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I'm not as content being single as others believe I am.
You should message me if
You are smiling and somewhat intrigued by the above.
The two of us