Upfront deal breakers: I'm pagan, in a polyamorous (open) relationship with my husband and I am not interested in anyone looking for an easy target or one night stand. I keep this open out of curiosity and in case anyone sees it and is interested or wants to know more about the pagan community here. It happens.
Movie examples: The Chronicals of Riddik, Robin Hood: Men in Tights, Star Wars / Star Trek, Tinker Tailor Soldier Spy, Pride and Prejudice.
TV shows: Bones, X-Files, Clone Wars, IT Crowd, Big Bang Theory, How the World Was Made
Anime: 0-7 Ghost, Pandora Hearts, Death Note, Hellsing OVA, etc
Music: Good grief I have a rather wide range in music. I like symphonic metal, rock, electronic, dance, world, mashups (if they are good), oldies, the occasional older country song, and classical.
Food: just about anything. less about potatoes and gravy and more about stir fry and chimichangas. Maybe not together.