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My self-summary
If you like me, send a message. I don't always have a paid subscription to see "likes".

UPDATE: finished my first term back in school! I work at 7-11 part time, and I sleep I. My SUV to save money. Hit me up.

First off, I'm Pansexual most of the time, Panromantic all the time and Polyamorous as long as my partner is. Though my preferences do skew towards people that are more feminine, regardless of their physical sex. Androgyny is very attractive to me, and these days I'm looking for either no-strings-attached physical intimacy or something more serious if it develops organically.

I'm nervous sometimes, but usually pretty outgoing. I may not always notice details, but I'm a pretty nice guy and I try my best to be nice to people. I'm pretty social, but I handle social interactions better in a one-on-one setting. I can be overly talkative sometimes too, especially with topics I'm passionate about.

Most of my dating experience has been with cis women, since I'm still pretty nervous around anyone else. I dunno why really, but I can't imagine turning down a perfectly good match just because of their gender identity or physical sex.
What I’m doing with my life
After a year with the California Conservation Corps following some failed attempts in the IT field, I've moved to Portland. It's a fresh start for me. I'm looking for work, going to PCC for Fire Protection(subject to change) and generally trying to find my way around Portland.

Eventually I'd like to live outside the city in a more rural area and teach environmental science.
I’m really good at
I'm very good with computers and most technical things. First and foremost, I'm a hardware guy. I can field strip, fix, and put back together a laptop as well as I can a chainsaw.

I can also cook pretty decently, if I have a cookbook to use. I'm good at cycling too, and love the rush of navigating downtown urban areas in any city. I'm good at working with my hands, whether its mechanical things or a caring massage for a close friend or partner.
The first things people usually notice about me
I talk a lot about geeky things. I'm a kind person who's very friendly. I'm a high energy individual. Kind of socially awkward at first. But if you get to know me, it makes more sense.

No one seems to notice my 6'4" height.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
This is by far not an exhaustive list:

Moving Mars (Greg Bear)
Implied Spaces (Walter Jon Williams), Post Human (David Simpson)
Under My Skin (Anna E. Dooland)
Flesh and Blood (Anna E. Dooland)
The Martian (Andy Weir)

Movies: Cloud Atlas
Princess Mononoke
District 9
Spirited Away
Avengers (any and all of the MCU)
What the Bleep Do We Know

Breaking Bad
True Blood
Cosmos: A Spacetime Odyssey
Full Metal Alchemist
Psycho Pass, Scorpion
Legend Of Korra
Avatar: The Last Airbender
(basically lots and lots of animation)

Linkin Park
Lindsey Stirling
Two Steps from Hell
Franz Ferdinand
Vampire Weekend
Daft Punk
The Glitch Mob
Aphex Twin
Hans Zimmer
Jeremy Zukerman
Ivan Torrent

lots and lots of composers and "epic soundtrack" type music. I've got an Apple Music account with unlimited streaming, so it gets hard to keep track of individual artists.

Food: Any and All!

Except Okra. Okra can go die in a fire.
Six things I could never do without
Air, Water, Food, physical intimacy of various degrees, multimedia, WiFi

All, of course, subject to change.
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Life and where I've been. I sometimes wonder how things might've turned out different if different decisions had been made.

Quantum Physics and String Theory and how those overlap with traditional philosophy and eastern mysticism.
On a typical Friday night I am
At home drinking beer and watching something, usually anime. Occasionally I'll go out to the movies if there's a movie I want to see.

It all depends on what money I have.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I find people who consider themselves "Furries" to be really hot. I also read hentai doujinshi (comics) with some regularity.
You should message me if
You're interested in love and companionship. If you want someone to laugh with (or at each other if we act stupid). If you want to share in hobbies. If you like the idea of cuddling in bed with a laptop and Netflix. If you like bacon. If you love anime passionately. If you can build your own computer or chop down a tree with proper form.

If you're a couple looking for someone to join in the fun. (First time for everything!)

If you just want to go at it between the sheets. That's fine too. If it becomes something more, we'll burn that bridge when we get to it...
The two of us