UPDATE: I just moved to portland and I'm kind of making it up as I go! I'm currently looking for work and a place to stay. I've got interviews lined up and my own vehicle. It's not the most stable landing i've had in a new town, but I won't let that stop me from meeting or dating cool new people. I'm looking, for friends, with or without "benefits", or something more if it develops naturally.
First off, I'm Pansexual most of the time, Panromantic all the time and Polyamorous as long as my partner is. Though my preferences do skew towards people that are more feminine, regardless of their physical sex. Androgyny is very attractive to me, and these days I'm looking for either no-strings-attached physical intimacy or something more serious if it develops organically.
I'm nervous sometimes, but usually pretty outgoing. I may not always notice details, but I'm a pretty nice guy and I try my best to be nice to people. I'm pretty social, but I handle social interactions better in a one-on-one setting. I can be overly talkative sometimes too, especially with topics I'm passionate about.
Most of my dating experience has been with cis women, since I'm still pretty nervous around anyone else. I dunno why really, but I can't imagine turning down a perfectly good match just because of their gender identity or physical sex.
Eventually I'd like to live outside the city in a more rural area and teach environmental science.
I can also cook pretty decently, if I have a cookbook to use. I'm good at cycling too, and love the rush of navigating downtown urban areas in any city. I'm good at working with my hands, whether its mechanical things or a caring massage for a close friend or partner.
No one seems to notice my 6'4" height.
Moving Mars (Greg Bear)
Implied Spaces (Walter Jon Williams), Post Human (David Simpson)
Under My Skin (Anna E. Dooland)
Flesh and Blood (Anna E. Dooland)
The Martian (Andy Weir)
Movies: Cloud Atlas
Avengers (any and all of the MCU)
What the Bleep Do We Know
Cosmos: A Spacetime Odyssey
Full Metal Alchemist
Psycho Pass, Scorpion
Legend Of Korra
Avatar: The Last Airbender
(basically lots and lots of animation)
Two Steps from Hell
The Glitch Mob
lots and lots of composers and "epic soundtrack" type music. I've got an Apple Music account with unlimited streaming, so it gets hard to keep track of individual artists.
Food: Any and All!
Except Okra. Okra can go die in a fire.
All, of course, subject to change.
Quantum Physics and String Theory and how those overlap with traditional philosophy and eastern mysticism.
It all depends on what money I have.
If you're a couple looking for someone to join in the fun. (First time for everything!)
If you just want to go at it between the sheets. That's fine too. If it becomes something more, we'll burn that bridge when we get to it...