35 Manhattan, United States
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My self-summary
There's nothing more liberating than knowing we have the ability to choose our own destiny, so I deliberately work to create the life I want to live and looking for someone that also finds joy from dreaming and creating.
What I’m doing with my life
Grew up in Chicago and moved to NYC in 2014 after ten years in Austin, TX. Real estate broker, blogger, spent part of 2013 traveling as the Gay Travel Guru for and apsiring author. At this point in life, I'm really looking for the pieces that will build the next chapter of my life. Side note - Want to get an idea of what kind of guy I am? (Remind you the video is now a few years old). You can watch my final travel video below and you'll get a pretty good idea.
I’m really good at
Honestly, whatever I put my mind to. I always say my brain is the strongest muscle in my body and my heart is the second.
The first things people usually notice about me
I would have to say my smile. The blue eyes would be second. If all else fails, my height.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
I tend to read books that educate and motivate, movies that allow me to dream, TV shows that make me laugh, music that makes me want to dance, and food that's good for me (changes with the moment). Books on my nightstand right this moment include a New Earth by Eckhart Tolle and Flow by Mihaly Csikzenthmihalyi. In the future, I look forward to sharing my book with the world - The Power of Your Secret Network.
The six things I could never do without
1. Family - Especially Mom and Dad
2. A Purpose/Passion
3. Sense of Connection/Community
4. Sunshine
5. Music
6. My Curiosity
6.1 Sex (Just trying to be authentic here. Sex and intimacy are important to me.)
I spend a lot of time thinking about
My future: How I can make more money, doing the things I enjoy, with the people I care about, in the places I want to be, with a man I love.
On a typical Friday night I am
I'm spent by Friday night. Saturday is a whole other story! But on Friday, I'm cool with grabbing a bite to eat with friends, a show, and hanging out on the couch. I like Friday nights to be thoughtless and relaxing.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
If there's one thing I struggle with, it's finding my balance between being the sinner and the saint. I'm part family guy that's ready for kids and part dreamer that doesn't want the adventure to stop. I know I'm a great guy and great partner, so looking for a guy that is curious and open to the experiences life has to offer.
You should message me if
If you think we would be a good match, are looking for a quality partner to continue your journey with, value growth, and have a strong curiosity for things in this world.