Ebonyguy
57 Memphis, United States
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My self-summary
Kinda laid back-Home body---Love marinating meat and cooking on the grill..

I am Loving, Kind, and Gentle. Looking to cultivate something special with a mature woman. strongest definition of Love.

1) Eros love -know as erotic love. It's based on strong feelings toward another. This love is based more on physical traits. Say a person says he has fallen in love for a woman , because she looked like an angel. Love by feelings alone cannot be called true love , because they do not know each other that much yet. It's based more on " self benefit'.

2) Philos love. A love based on friendship between two people. It is true that two lovers start out by being friends first before becoming partners usually are the relationships that last, more long term. Philos love is based on give and take. Where two people benefits each other in a mutual way. It's a higher type of love than Eros. Like Eros love Philos must develop into a higher form of love, the highest form of love of all is " Agape or unconditional love.

3). Agape- unconditional love. Agape love is above Philos love and Eros love. It is love that is totally selfless. Where a person gives out love to another person even if this act does not benefit him/her in anyway. However the highest type of love agape is not human at all , but Devine - Gods unconditional love for us. His children.

In Essence Eros love is " Physical" Philos love is " Mental" and Agape love is " Spiritual ".
What I’m doing with my life
Taking one day at a time...Studying and growing inward. I am attending a local college. Surrendering my all to GOD on a daily basis.
I’m really good at
Public Speaking and cooking
The first things people usually notice about me
My humor about life
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
The bible, any kind of motivational books, I like most music. My favorite foods are- Shrimp, Turnip greens, Grilled meats,
The six things I could never do without
The presence of GOD-True friends-My blackberry-meditation time-books-Music
I spend a lot of time thinking about
How I can help my fellow man to become all that GOD wants him or her to be!
On a typical Friday night I am
I am reading, studying. Hanging at the fitness center.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
Ummm Get back with me on that one
You should message me if
Are single- Mature- Surrendered to GOD- Want to be loved, adored and pampered.
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