He cleans up after himself. He cleans up the planet. He is a role model for young men. He is rigorously honest and fiercely optimistic.
He holds himself accountable. He knows what he feels. He knows how to cry and he lets it go. He knows how to rage without hurting others. He knows how to fear and how to keep moving. He seeks self-mastery.
He has let go of childish shame. He feels guilty when he’s done something wrong. He is kind to men, kind to women, kind to children. He teaches others how to be kind. He says he’s sorry.
He stopped blaming women or his parents or men for his pain years ago. He stopped letting his defenses ruin his relationships. He stopped letting his penis run his life. He has enough self-respect to tell the truth. He creates intimacy and trust with his actions. He has men that he trusts and that he turns to for support. He knows how to roll with it. He knows how to make it happen. He is disciplined when he needs to be. He is flexible when he needs to be. He knows how to listen from the core of his being.
He’s not afraid to get dirty. He’s ready to confront his own limitations. He has high expectations for himself and for those he connects with. He looks for ways to serve others. He knows he is an individual. He knows that we are all one. He knows he is an animal and a part of nature. He knows his spirit and his connection to something greater.
He knows that the future generations are watching his actions. He builds communities where people are respected and valued. He takes responsibility for himself and is also willing to be his brother’s keeper.
He knows his higher purpose. He loves with fierceness. He laughs with abandon, because he gets the joke.
This is the Mature Masculine – the New Warrior – a re-definition of masculinity for the 21st century. By no means is this list complete.
" You can connect from all kinds of places- energetic
harmony, sexual alchemy, intellectual alignment- but
they won’t sustain love over a lifetime. You need a
thread that goes deeper, that moves below and beyond
the shifting sands of compatibility. That thread is
fascination- a genuine fascination with someone’s
inner world, with the way they organize reality, with
the way they hearticulate their feelings, with the
unfathomable and bottomless depths of their being.
If there is that, then there will still be love when the body
sickens, when the sexuality fades, when the perfection
projection is long shattered. If there is that, you will
swim in love’s waters until the very last breath."
My music tastes vary depending on my mood. I love Pandora there is so much music out there you would never hear. And last but not least food...well what can I say I am very healthy. I try to eat organic and eat out as little as possible as that way I can have more control over what goes in my body. I am very conscious of food and nutrition as I don't want to be sick and crippled when I am older; it doesn't have to be that way.
I have nice toe nails