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My self-summary
I want to say that I am funny as hell, but the truth is, most of the time I'm the only one thinking that! Warning: If I pick up that you're feeling down that only encourages me more to try and make you laugh.

I love having "real conversations" that leads to "true connections" and will trade banter from -- current events, discussing how we're so divided as a country and needs for more compassion, to debating the latest comics with you any day of the week (who's cooler batman or wolverine? wolverine, of course! Logan all the way!)

Basically I'm a techy, geeky, smart ass with serious soft side for you and the world.
What I’m doing with my life
Working for the man, bringing smiles and hopefully a comforting laugh to my colleagues, friends and family - while squeezing in some time going to AT&T park (go Giants!) and weekend hikes on the trails (nature rocks!).
I’m really good at
This might sound silly in this cynical world - but I'm a devoted, loyal person that believes a laugh can get a person through even the hardest moments.

Seeing the bright side of a situation, knowing there's always a light at the end of the tunnel and keeping my friends / family safe and smiling till we get there.

Listening and seeing the human person inside. My friends tell me I always seem to know how they're feeling and do just the right thing (okay, maybe sometimes the wrong thing too - no one's perfect.)

I've got a empathetic heart a mile wide and am always willing to lend a smile to tease, a hand to reach out, ear to listen and arms to hug...I may not always succeed... but I'm always willing to try.
The first things people usually notice about me
My surprising combination of intimidating bouncer-like exterior, with geeky / all heart interior. [I surveyed my friends - this answer came out on top]
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
First and foremost for movies ... SCI-FI. Favorite movie is Bladerunner. But other then that I love going to the movies in general. I will watch almost anything really.

Music is all across the board. I spent many years being a club kid dancing to house music, and though I still appreciate the music and go out once in a blue moon, I'm out of that crazy party lifestyle. I love Music and I love to go to shows when I can!! One of my profile picture has my Rock face on it.

Food ... there is soo many good places in SF that I can't even start. Chances are I could show you a lot of great places. Mexican is always a yes.

Books? I have read a ton in my life, mostly fiction. Currently I find I am so busy that I usually only burn through a book when I am on vacation.
Six things I could never do without
Well I can learn to do without anything really, but ..
My Cat
Smokey music ..
Real conversations/diving deep
letting go ...
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Work, the trials and tribulations of working in Corporate America, wondering if it would be better to work in the private sector, real Connection vs aesthetics or base attraction, the current direction of our country and how happy I am to live in a bubble.
On a typical Friday night I am
Libations with friends, relaxing at home, depends on the week.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I snore
You should message me if
If your idea of fun on a Saturday is sitting down on a sunny day at Zeitgeist, or other outdoor Patio, and talking / laughing all day, then Fuck yes message me. Let's do this.

I like the outdoors, but if you couple that with great conversation, and a awesome meal at the end of the trail - even better!

Simple...If you're a kind, nice, person that's looking for the same.
The two of us