51 Dayton, United States
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My self-summary
It's been so long since I've updated this thing, but I guess its time to really time to do so.

So where do I begin.

Well, my motto comes from Peter Gabriel: "So Much Larger Than Life!"

Loves to laugh, loves to enjoy other people, loves to see the world, and loves to learn new things.
What I’m doing with my life
After nine years as a courier driver I'm now entered into the security field as a dispatcher. My better half, Brenda, is back in school to become part of the culinary world.

We're struggling, but truthfully we're together and making it. Our girls are doing well in school and our friends are growing along with us.
I’m really good at
Writing and singing. I can sing anything for Al Green to Phil Collins. Now, if I could find a group or method to do so and get out of the shower it would be a good thing. But just so you know others think I sing pretty well.

I'm an info geek big time! I love to find out things about the world and life via the computer and books. I think learning is the greatest strength in the world.
The first things people usually notice about me
Him: You're REALLY tall! You're really bald and tall!
Bren: You REALLY like Dave Mathews.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
The Harry Potter Series, The Anita Blake Vampire Hunter Series, This Present Darkness, Wisdom Hunter, and books by Randy Shilts. Also, enjoy books on erotica and non-fiction books too.

Movies: Where do I begin? My favorite all time is Schindler's List! We also love the Matrix, LOTR, Harry Potter, James Bond, lots fo comedies, drama, thrillers (Hitchcock), etc. to measure. One of my favorite movies I enjoy the most is "Enter the Void". One of the most provocative movies I've ever seen. The opening scene may cause seizures to the faint of hard, but truthfully a very artful movie. One of my favorite documentaries is "Lord Save Us From Your Followers". Really breaks down the whole faith issues.

Music: From the 50s to the present (so long as people who can make music with instruments can make music is a priority) we enjoy it. Loves dance music, enjoy Goth and Hard Rock,etc. Not a huge country fan, but respect good writing and talent. Gospel and CCM too (not the current crop, the old kind).

Travel: Give us the money and means we'll find a way to get there. Right now we're hoping to somehow visit some bed and breakfast close to home or in the tri state area.
The six things I could never do without
Ed:Peanut Butter, the computer, Stephanie Miller, Rachel Maddow,soccer, and friends (I would say sex only as the last part because sex doesn't make the world go round, but it does make it less boring).

Bren: Nature, music, animals, art, friends, and family.
I spend a lot of time thinking about
How to be a better father to my daughter and how I can truly become the writer/singer I want to be. Plus, I also would like to learn how to be a better person to the one I really love (Bren).

Also think about how life has changed so much in 40 years. It seemed so simple without the blogs, twitter, computer, etc. We had to talk to each other personally; we had to call in phone booths and actually talk to each other at dinner tables. There was no need to eat out but we had to cook at home so we can all sit at the dinner table to eat. Plus, I miss game night with the family. I don't know about others, but I remember playing Trouble, King's in the Corner, or Dominos till 3am on the weekend during a hot summer in Cleveland.

For Bren, she's disgusted how developed everything in her home town of Beavercreek. She told me how she'd bike across farm fields and neighborhoods before they turned it into condos, malls, and strip malls.

I guess we think about the not yet. What will this world looks like or become after we are old and gray? Will we enjoy nature, animals and our environment or will we be struggling to get a breath of air? God only knows.
On a typical Friday night I am
Lately its work. Wish we can run and go out for a night on the town, but right now just trying to keep our head above water.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I'm a HUGE soccer fan. Got season tickets to the Columbus Crew, enjoy watching it on TV, and can come to Columbus to maybe check out the bars that love soccer too.
You should message me if
You are intelligent, thoughtful, open to conversation, enjoy laughter, have a kinky side to you, enjoy talk about sexuality without the need to have to be sexually active, and not be afraid to bring up any subject. Good conversation starts when you know you can be comfortable with the persons around you.