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My self-summary
Oh hello!

Active, exciting bear seeks other man to share adventures and shady escapades. Men who are laid back and won't mind if our first date involves anything from Fisherman's Warf to a hike on Angel Island please step to the front of the line! As for a "type" - I don't care what you look like as long as you're okay with how you look.

I don't view OkCupid as a hookup site. I'm actually here to meet someone that would like to go on a date without hauling an overnight bag with them. While I completely understand that sex is a natural (and awesome) end goal in a date, I like there to be a little romance and mystery when I go out with someone. And keeping the suspense for a date or two is even hotter.

Need not be past the "I have no idea what I'm doing with my life" phase in life.
MUST be past the "I'm pretty sure no one notices that I haven't done laundry in three months " phase in life.
What I’m doing with my life
One day, I will start a yoga class for bears and big men so they can enjoy the benefits of yoga without being intimidated by perfectly in-shape people from the Marina decked out in Lululemon. I will go by Yogi Bear.

I'm heavily active in the Non-Profit world - I'm President of the Board of Directors of the Folsom Street Fair, raising over $300k every year for direct service and arts nonprofits around the World.

I know most people look at this part mainly to see what I'm doing for a living. And to be honest - I'm a lot more exciting when you ask other things about me. If you're desperate to know, I'm work in customer management for an HR Tech company.
I’m really good at
Making people smile
Witty jokes when not appropriate
Looking at the bright side of things
Making Lattes
Folding Laundry - really
The first things people usually notice about me
My glorious beard
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
I read a lot. This list is tough to keep up. So I'll say this, I'm well enough read to know that if I have to Google more than 2 authors on your list, you're just showing off.

I listen to pretty much everything - even country and rap. I geek out on Classical and Jazz the most. Current ear worms are Dave Grusin, Voces8, Patternist, and later Joni Mitchell. A million bonus points if you can talk about DCI.

I don't have cable, but am still a couch potato at time streaming crap on Netflix. Orange is the New Black and House of Cards premier weekends you will not be able to reach me. I'm a shameless Trekkie and appreciate all four shows, TOS, TNG, DS9 and Voyager. I'm an Enterprise denier.

You can find me cooking and eating pretty much anything under the sun. A typical day for me can start with homemade granola with homemade cashew milk, Taco truck or oversized salad for lunch, and something I threw in the oven at 150degrees this morning for dinner. I cook everything - it's my passion.

As for movies, as long as I'm laughing, crying, or singing along, I'm good.

I strongly believe that Calvin and Hobbes is the greatest comic the world has ever known.
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Where I will be in the future, and how what I'm doing now will affect it.
On a typical Friday night I am
reflecting on the fact that there is no typical Friday night.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I wear underwear you wouldn't expect a bear to wear.
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