44Fremont, United States
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My self-summary
Me in a word - dichotomy. Seriously, I am a blend of West Texas cowboy (I open doors, say Ma'am and Sir, have spent untold hours in the saddle, and love a good steak) and California boy (yoga, sushi, and even long hair). I get a kick out of laughing at myself though...and in the end, is there a better way to get through this crazy world than to recognize one's own bit of insanity?

Of note: I am living as an un-recalcitrant poylamorist. I have a delightful wife who would be a part of any relationship which I might explore. In fact, we would love to find a girl to date together; best of both worlds for all involved. Her profile is PetBirchTree, go get a taste of how wonderful she truly is. (While not necessary that you and she be lovers there would have to be a friendship between you for anything long term to work out.)

Our household also includes chesire_grin as well as two little boys ages 7 and 4.5. Oh hell, might as well warn you about the cat (not mine, mind!), chickens, rabbit, fish pond attached to aquaponic plant platform and probably something else by the time you write. :)
What I’m doing with my life
Singing, chasing my little boys, and adjusting to life in Fremont which feels like the middle of no where. I am also working toward certification as a personal trainer!
I’m really good at
Riding and training horses, flirting, making painful puns, listening, cooking, massage, acting, asking questions, helping identify desires. I am also insanely skilled at baths, reading for hours and playing silly games. I sounded pretty well adjusted and interesting 'til that last sentence, right?
The first things people usually notice about me
Apparently that I am capable and competent. Virtually every day a stranger will ask me how to do something. Recent examples include how to cook skewers without burning the veggies, how to hold form in Romanian deadlifts and how to change a turn signal.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
Books - How does one choose favorite books? I have been biblio-poly FAR longer than I have any other kind. Looking up at my overflowing bookcase gives the following sampling of authors - Patrick Rothfuss, Carol Berg, Steve Brust, R.R. Martin, Robert Heinlein, Rowling, Raymond Feist, David Eddings, Gregory Benford, Stephen Baxter, and Robert Aspirin. My favorite series of all time? The "Hyperion" saga by Dan Simmons. Book 2 is hard going, but hands down the most moving 4 volume work I have ever read. Sex at Dawn and the Ethical Slut are pretty high on the list of non fiction reads.

Movies - Best Little Whorehouse in Texas, Shawshank Redemption, Bull Durham, Princess Bride, Hidalgo, the Lord of the Rings trilogy

TV - Big Love, Dexter, Castle, Hannibal, White Collar, Blacklist, Breaking Bad, anything Wheedon...all watched on Hulu, I don't schedule my life around TV.

Music - Here is where I admit that I love country. Where else can you find lyrics like: "Cause I'd like to see you out in the moonlight I'd like to kiss you way back in the sticks I'd like to walk you in a field of wildflowers And I'd like to check you for ticks"


"She went way up yonder past the caution light Don't know why, but somethin' felt right When she stopped in and asked Miss Bell for some of her sweet tea Mama gave her a big 'ol glass and sent her right back here to me

Thank God for good directions....and turnip greens"
Obviously classical music and music theatre are well loved.

Food - Yes, please.
Six things I could never do without
In no particular order: 1) Books 2) interaction with people 3) chocolate (real, dark, luscious chocolate) 4) love 5) my shared Google calendar (as a freelance artist and poly person I would forget what day it was with out one!) 6) cuddling
I spend a lot of time thinking about
If life's path is one that should be scouted carefully for the "best path", or if one should grab the karmic machete and carve a path to whatever comes next.

How far can one reasonably stretch being GGG?
On a typical Friday night I am
When in production performing or rehearsing, if not then exploring whatever (or whomever) has piqued my interest.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I used to whistle my esses like the gopher in Winnie the Pooh.
You should message me if
You love to cuddle, waltz, go to faire, enjoy opera, like horses, or find the idea of joining Alexa and me in a puppy pile sounds appealing. Conversely, you might find a sci-fi/fantasy book club engaging, as that seems to be an endeavor in the works.

You love mornings and want to enjoy them with some one who is at his best at 6 am.

If you have interest in building a communal style household, this would be an excellent reason to contact me!

You consider word play (informal or in a game) foreplay.

If you watch Game of Thrones and find Ser Dahvos sexy. I seem to look more like him every day. Can do the accent too if you like. :)

It has recently come to my attention that there are actually people who jones for red headed men. If you are one of those blessed folk please step to the front of the line!
The two of us