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My self-summary
Skeptical of online dating but willing to be open minded...
I think I need to add I DO NOT HIKE (I feel like its a prerequisite for online dating)! So please if you are an avid hiker I am NOT your match. I think hiking is just walking up and down a dirt hill, basically overrated, (my opinion). I'm now going to add; please stop sending me messages saying you "like my tattoos", I do not have any tattoos, it is a Halloween picture, I thought that was obvious! As for all the couples and lesbians sending me messages, no judgment here, I am flattered but not interested, thank you.

Okay... I am looking for a REAL gentleman, a nice guy, someone who is kind and caring but has a back bone. A man who knows the difference between being gentle/mysterious, refined/reserved, preppy/conservative. A TRUE gentleman! A man that realizes kissing a women's palm can be as sensual as any other act. A man who knows to open doors and pull out chairs. A man who doesn't do the "modern day honk" pulling up to a women's house and calling her on your cell phone saying your outside, A proper man parks his car and walks up to the door and knocks. Someone who appreciates romance but isn't cheesy about it. A person who takes pride in their looks, such as a clean shaven face (I cannot stress this enough, if you have facial hair please don't send me a message), good hygiene and keeps a healthy weight. I feel that attraction is A must because to me intimacy is very important in a good healthy relationship. I would like someone to have a sense of humor but not as far as a comedian because I also think serious can be very sexy. Intelligent of course. Basically the perfect man, I know there's no such thing, but maybe just someone perfectly suited for me.
What I’m doing with my life
Choosing to be happy and taking risks within reason... (May you live as long as you like and have all you like as long as you live). When you change the way you look at things...things you look at change.
I’m really good at
Telling it how it is, with a kind twist.
The first things people usually notice about me
I can't wait to hear YOUR answers...
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
Everything, knowledge is power and food is great! Being open minded and willing to learn and experience new things is what life's all about.
Six things I could never do without
Family, believing in something bigger than me, books, kindness when unexpected, playing golf and the sun on my bare skin.
I spend a lot of time thinking about
What most people don't! (1) I'm not afraid to fail. I'm afraid that I'll want to... It's easy to wish, dream and hope. But it's reality to try and not succeed. Sometimes we don't understand the difference between having faith and belief in yourself verses being ready and the right timing. (2) The difference between being arrogant and confident. (3) The difference between being helpful and foolish. Fool me once shame on you, fool me twice shame on me. (4) Learn from the past, live in the present and look toward the future. (5) Maybe you only consider the outcomes and not the intentions?! (6) Your actions and words should match, not one speaking louder than the other. (7) There are no stupid questions, just stupid answers. The thirst for knowledge is a sign of intellect. (8) Last but not least... It's not the mistake that makes the man but rather how the man handles the mistake he's made that defines him/his character!...
On a typical Friday night I am
Not out at a club!
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
Why most people are like the teacher in the Charlie Brown cartoon to me...
You should message me if
Well simply put your not insane and you are not looking to date someone more than 15-20 years your junior (my opinion, pedophile). I'm more or less intrigued by someone who dates within normal realms like 10 years their junior or senior. I came across a man on this site who was, well let's just say quite old and put that he was looking for women from 20-39 years of age, basically I just made the cut. Funny, what happens when I turn 40? Am I terminated? And finally, is he scared of women his own age? Maybe his intellect is one of a child's and that's what he relates to, we'll good luck to him and his quote "looking for the one or soulmate or serious long term relationship" or lets face it whatever Bulls#*t he is trying to make some poor naive vulnerable girl believe. If that's you more power to you and your endeavors but please just ignore me, my age and self esteem are more than equipped to deal. But seriously thanks for the interest. And lastly, only if you understood the comment I made from "the most private thing I'm willing to admit".
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