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My self-summary
My hair changes colors...usually white to dirty blond, but sometimes funkier things.

My tastes are pretty widely varied...but that doesn't mean I dislike things that are positively awful. I can be a bit of a goofball, but that doesn't mean I'm not an adult.

I am a tea snob...no really...it's weird...I hate pretty much every tea.

I'm looking for people who want to have a date...and if that goes well, maybe another date...and continue in said fashion until we figure out if our dates are actually romantic, or are born of enjoying hanging out with each other...and then pursuing either of those to their logical end (both of which probably involve helping the other person bury a body somewhere).

You don't need to be a perfect match...just someone who wants to have a conversation and see if we stimulate each other in exciting ways.
What I’m doing with my life
Working and creating. Writing music, working in theater, directing, conducting, and singing (mainly singing).

I'm a composer, singer, and all around musician/actor/performer/music director. I have a day job in IT.

I recently got back from a random, virtually unplanned trip to Japan...that was quite an experience.
I’m really good at
Staying up too late
The first things people usually notice about me
My hair and my eyes, after that it's my sense of humor.

I laugh very easily.

I have a love of the weird and absurd.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
Blade Runner, Eternal Sunshine of the Spotless Mind, Evangelion, Texhnolyze, Death Note, Lost in Translation. Dr. Horrible, I <3 Huckabees, Run Lola Run....to name a few.

Twin Peaks is the best thing ever produced on television, Archer is a close second.

Music: Anything from Chopin to Jacques Brel to Sisters of Mercy to Nick Cave. If I have a favorite album, it's probably Bowie's Outside, maybe The Fragile from Nine Inch Nails, but really it could be a lot of different things. There used to be a poster of Nick Cave on my bedroom door if that says anything. The Cure, Early Ministry, EBM...I grew up immersed in goth-industrial culture/music.

Books: psychological, weird fantasy, Philosophical Science Fiction. My favorite book is Neuromancer, but my favorite author is Philip K. Dick, and all I read lately is China Miéville. Hmmm...Dune is a good book. So is The End of the Affair by Graham Greene. House of Leaves is brilliant. John Dies at The End.

Food - don't make me eat feta or grape leaves. I love to cook but not for myself.
The six things I could never do without
late night walks, incessant flirting, rain, fog, cynicism, my voice.
I spend a lot of time thinking about
On a typical Friday night I am
Either going crazy trying to find people to hang out with, or I'm sucked into my computer or a film or book and need the world to get out of my space.

I guess I might be practicing guitar or riding my bike...or attempting to do both.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
There is VERY little I keep private about myself. I don't really believe in adhering too much to standard social boundaries that have no actual basis in logic.
You should message me if
You like forcing your friends to watch movies that you know they'll think are positively awful and slightly hate you for.

You are certain that there's a time and a place for everything, and you are unfortunately never in that place or time whenever you're doing something.

You understand that there is absolutely nothing wrong with hyperbolic usage of the word 'literally'....or you disagree and wish to do battle.