40San Antonio, United States
Join today
Find great matches with our advanced matching system!
Join today
Find great matches with our advanced matching system!
My self-summary
I'm kinky, poly, and bisexual and looking for a lover or submissive. All first meetings involve a friend coming with me. I love to read, swim, go for walks, and enjoy the sun. What can I say, I've filled out so many of these profiles I don't know what to say on them anymore...

I am recently out of a 15 year long relationship and not looking for serious relationships at this time, but one may fall in my lap.

I am absentminded and borderline OCD. Geeky Renaissance faire junkie, I usually go to Sherwood Faire in the spring and TRF in the fall. I do Scarborough if I have the time and funds. I like to sew, crochet, craft in general. I like to go to the movies, hang out at home, work on a new toy for the kinky toybag, chat online.
What I’m doing with my life
I'm currently working for a large medical supplies company. I have two dogs (both Boxer rescues) and two cats. While I would like to go to school sometime to finish up college and get a degree, I don't know that it will happen soon. I'm at a point in life where I am know what I want but I still need to set goals, and with help from friends and family (mostly supportive love but the occasional kick in the ass) reach those goals.

I'm a mom. My daughter does not live with me.
I’m really good at
I am intelligent, creative, and non-artistic. I don't sing, draw, paint, or sculpt. What do I create? Writing and poetry, mostly. I'm great at basic crochet patterns, and I can normally figure things out with a pattern (I have a king sized afghan that I crocheted) and I like making snowflakes with teeny tiny crochet hooks. I'm awesome with numbers (love math) and have a pretty good memory.
The first things people usually notice about me
I've got very long, straight hair, and vibrant blue eyes.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
I love science fiction and fantasy, and read voraciously. Favorite authors include Robert Heinlein, Douglas Adams, Isaac Asimov, Robert Lynn Asprin, Orson Scott Card, Jacqueline Carey, Terry Pratchett.

I love action adventure movies, sci fi, fantasy, animated movies, the occasional rom-com, musicals and zombie flicks. Resident Evil, The Fifth Element, Cinderella, The Little Mermaid, Up, Easter Parade, Singin' in the Rain.

I love Big Bang Theory and The Walking Dead, I like FaceOff, Arrow, Elementary. I will watch Warehouse 13 (having lost my place in it last season I'm no longer a committed follower), Lost Girl, Haven. I like So You Think You Can Dance (unsure if it's still in production) and America's Got Talent and The Voice.

In the car I listen to country music or "The best of the 80's, 90's, and today". I'm not opposed to much music, though I admit I don't have exposure to things like jazz, classical, opera, gangsta rap. I'm an Ani DiFranco fan, and I like No Doubt, Gwen Stefani, Gorillaz, Taylor Swift, an eclectic mix.

Food. Yes, please. There isn't much food I don't like. As my waistline can attest. I love exotic cuisine, like Indian, Middle Eastern, Greek, anything I can find, really. I can make a wicked curry, I suck at stir fry but I cook it anyway. I eat Italian, French, German, Chinese, Thai, Korean (mmmmm bulgogi!). I love sushi. But down home american cooking is great too.
Six things I could never do without
Feline companionship
Water (to drink and clean)
Books (voracious reader)
Carbohydrates (I'm a carb junkie. Pasta, bread, rice, oh my!)
A way to write my thoughts

One thing I COULD do without: Clothes. I'll make due with sitting on a towel when it's too hot to sit on furniture without sweating, but other than that I'd rather go naked most of the time.
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Recent thoughts involve ethical polyamory, mainly my failures in that field, and living with the consequences of our actions.
On a typical Friday night I am
Chillin' at home, surfing the web, chatting with friends and relaxing for the weekend, making plans for my Saturday and Sunday.
You should message me if
You're female
You get that I'm poly and that I won't be monogamous
You share a love of sci-fi and fantasy
You want to shower me with compliments (ok, I'm easy in that regard)
You want to shower with me
You want a workout partner that needs a kick in the pants sometimes
The two of us