42 Lewisville, United States
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My self-summary
I've had a few question my motives on here. Yes I'm married, but free to date, and yes sleep with, other women. Nothing hidden or covert just in a happy, trusting, open relationship. Some would consider us Poly. I'm looking for new relationships, not just sex, but do enjoy exploring all aspects of a new relationship with a new person. That being said... ;)

Friends, family and people are probably most important to me. The relationships we create with others keep us happy and healthy and I truly enjoy having strong relationships with those that are close to me. I am married to Pookers313.We've been together for over a decade and have a very strong relationship. We have a very strong relationship based on trust and love, but we also share a very open relationship allowing us to explore new adventures both together and apart.

Beyond that, life is an adventure and regardless of your job or other responsibilities, you should enjoy all it has to offer. I love the outdoors and enjoy SCUBA diving and camping when time allows. I love reading and gaming (roleplaying - Pathfinder/D&D/WoD/Savage Worlds; computer - WOW(used to), xbox, & board games). I enjoy hosting parties, though it has been a while. I enjoy the Renaissance Faires and try to make to both Scarborough and TRF each year when I can. I love to see new places and have traveled to Germany & Italy as well as much of the United States.

I am very open to exploring new things, but my family and friends come first. I have experimented with a bit of kink and enjoy Shibari (rope bondage) on occasion, but honestly love passionate vanilla sex on a more regular basis.

I am adventurous, curious, and loving
What I’m doing with my life
Things are fairly consistent as of late. I'm a manager at a major insurance company and have been there for over to 10 years now. I have been happily married for 15 years, and have many close friends. I host a regular gaming night every other Saturday and try to get out as often as possible. Most recently I have also help create a company in which I a both a part owner as well as designer.

Over the last few years I have really begun to focus on my health and diet. Since returning from Chicago, I've been getting back into a regular exercise schedule. So far, it has been going well, but I still have a way to go.

I am also looking to explore new relationships and sensuality. Although I would absolutely enjoy a personal relationship, I am also open to sharing any relationships, friendship or otherwise, with my wife. We are both very open and enjoy having many close friends.

I am also looking for new life experiences. I have found I enjoy rock climbing and would like to try out skydiving. I am also looking forward to new SCUBA experiences, camping, and hopefully will get to travel with family and friends again in the fall.
I’m really good at
Listening. I have a lot of patients and enjoy listening to other people's stories and opinions.

I am good at cooking, especially when camping, but even at home.

I believe I have a fair imagination and enjoy writing (mostly fantasy/sci-fi) on the rare chance I get a good stretch to sit down and actually write something. I've been told I am great at running rpg's which probably comes from my ability to craft a story.

I am great at planning events and hosting parties.

I'm also handy around the house, especially with electrical repairs, but enjoy working with tools when something needs to be fixed.

I excel at using Excel, Word, & PowerPoint, probably because I use them so often at work. I can also fumble my way through document creation in Adobe, and photo manipulation in PhotoShop.

Did I mention I was a boy scout? Yep, I was an Eagle Scout, which probably why I enjoy playing with ropes and knots so much as well as my love of the outdoors and camping.
The first things people usually notice about me
Currently it is probably my beard?? It's a bit shaggy in preparation for a friends wedding, but I guess it would be easy to notice...

Other than that, maybe my hazel eyes? Or that I can seem a bit shy at first? You should come hang out and let me know.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
Books: Robert Jordan, George RR Martin, Stephen King, Frank Herbert, Terry Goodkind, Niel Gaiman, Orsen Scott Card, and most Science Fiction of Fantasy books. Honestly, I will read just about anything as long as it catches my interest.

TV: I don't really watch too much TV, but my favorites are Doctor Who, Firefly, Big Bang Theory, Walking Dead, Castle, and Torchwood to name a few.

Movies: Again, just about anything. I like action/adventure films for the fast paced action. I like big budget films for the eye-candy. I like drama for the story. I like comedy for the laughs. I like porn... ;) Any movie can be enjoyable if you go to watch it with the right mindset or the right people.

Music: Rock, industrial, and heavy are my favorites, but oddly enough I also enjoy pop, jazz, and classical music. I even listen to country on occasion. Some of my favorite bands/artists are Nine Inch Nails, Disturbed, Linkin Park, White Zombie, Korn, Aerosmith, Blue October, Coldplay, Sting and Pink Floyd.

Food: Anything! Homemade slow cooked ribs!! Italian, Chinese, American, Mexican, etc. I will try anything at least once.
The six things I could never do without
Of course there are the basics: food, air, water, but beyond these there are only a few essentials:

Relationships/Love - Friends, family, love are all important. Without them I would be lost.

Something New - I love the consistency in my life, but I also hunger for the excitement of something new. That initial excitement of that first exposure to something new is awesome.

Adventure - Life is an adventure. Going out and living is what it is all about. Experiencing a new adventure is what makes life worth living. All of the memories and adventures help define life.

Moments to myself - It is important to take time to yourself occasionally. Explore who you are and put your mind at ease.

Physical Connection - Love is important, but so is the physical. Whether it is a great hug, cuddles and snuggles on the couch, or passionate sex, it is important to connect physically with those you love most.

Knowledge - Knowledge is power. Listening and learning is important to personal growth. If you never learn or exposure yourself to something new, how can you grow personally? Always seeking new knowledge helps free the mind.
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Everything... life, happiness, work, family, friends, fun, etc.
On a typical Friday night I am
Who knows... At home, at the club, at the pool hall, hosting a party, hanging with friends, shopping with the family, on a date, etc. Let me know what you want to do and we will work it out.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I bite... very well!!

I'm also an introvert, though most people can't tell. Most just consider me to be laid back and stable when I'm not in the leader role. In truth I like the quiet moments in life just as much as the adventurous ones.

I'll admit to just about anything. Just ask!
You should message me if
If you want to chat. If you are interested in a new friend. If you too are interested in a new relationship or even just casual (safe) sex. If you want to.

If you write me I will try to respond quickly, but I'm not on here everyday. Give me some time and I will get back to you!

Also, there is nothing wrong with a woman being forward. If you are interested, let me know. I would love to get to know you!