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My self-summary
Absolutely NOT interested in anything beyond friendship. I'm married and monogamous. I will delete your message if there's a hint of other. I'm weary of this bullshit.

Philosophies are changing right now. And my ability to censor myself to fit society's social expectations is degrading.

I have a strange mix of apathy and passion. I am passionate about specific topics, concepts, interests. But I have this glaze of apathy over most everything else. It's me, and even I find it puzzling.

Jung/Myers-Briggs result: INTP
What I’m doing with my life
Who really knows...
I’m really good at
Reading people
Second-guessing myself
Analyzing people (including myself)
The first things people usually notice about me
My hair and when I wear contacts, people notice my eyes.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
Books: David Copperfield & Great Expectations by Charles Dickens; The Goose Girl and Princess Academy by Shannon Hale; Pride and Prejudice by Jane Austen; Anne of Green Gables series by L.M. Montgomery; Codex of Alera series and the Dresden Files by Jim Butcher; Tithe, Valiant and Ironside by Holly Black; Sookie Stackhouse series by Charlaine Harris (did NOT like the TV show since the message in the books was lost in the show); Skip Beat! by Yoshiki Nakamura; and many others
Movies: Serenity, Hairspray, Red, Resident Evil, Kung Fu Panda, Rio, Shawn of the Dead, Toy Story (all), Tinkerbell series (haha yep), Sleeping Beauty, Madagascar I & II, Iron Man (both), Sherlock Holmes, Star Trek (new one), Pirates of the Caribbean, Voices of a Distant Star. I love movies!
Shows: Bones, Big Bang Theory, Castle, Doctor Who, Sherlock (BBC), Supernatural, Days (soccer anime), Knights of Sidonia, Hunter x Hunter, Trigun, Cowboy Bebop
Music: I enjoy just about anything besides rap and country but there are exceptions to those as well.
Favorite groups: Disturbed, Five Finger Death Punch, Volbeat, Seether, Godmack, Amon Amarth, Metalocalypse, Rammstein, Basshunter, PelleK, Ellie Goulding, Emile Pandolfi, Enya, Bond, Pink, Cascada, Escala, Basshunter, Three Days Grace, Skillet, Nine Inch Nails, Philip Wesley, David Garrett, Dallas String Quartet, 2Cellos, Rob Dougan, System of a Down, Daft Punk, KT Tunstall, Sarah Bareilles, Jason Mraz, Colbie Caillat... I have more, but meh.
Food: Japanse, Indian, Thai, Chinese, Mexican, Italian and some Southern cooking
Six things I could never do without
Books (stories in any form but books are my favorite form)
Nature, of the lush variety
Art (the act of creating it as well as observing it)
Human interaction
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Accomplishing my life goals or bust
On a typical Friday night I am
Hanging out with my son or working
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
Okay, so I should admit something private here...

I miss being a blunt person and I'm trying to change back to that. I suppose the "correct" word is "frank" rather than "blunt", in order to imply some tact with being forthright...

I hate society's structure. I think it's stupid. But yes, yes, I follow the damn rules. But I don't have to like it and I question the rules all the time...

I'm incredibly selfish. Yet, I also care about others and do not want to hurt others (as in any other organism, not just silly humans). But why the fuck do I care about humans anyway? Ugh, we are so stupid and pointless. But I can't help caring. And yet, that caring really only goes so far. So yes, I'm selfish.
You should message me if
If you have something interesting to discuss, please message me!
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