30Goleta, United States
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My self-summary
I love my life in SB. I'm a student (grad). I end up working indoors in labs much of the time, but I absolutely love being outdoors. I worked for a nonprofit that got taught me about many of the hikes, beaches, creeks around SB, but there are always more.

I am all kinds of optimistic.

I have a great life, live in a beautiful place, interesting job, brilliant friends. I'd be happy to share. I also have a girlfriend who lives in Chicago. We are in an open relationship. o_O So modern.
What I’m doing with my life
Living in SB and it is one of the main reasons I didn't leave after finishing undergrad. Doing my research, hoping to spearfish more, going to festivals when I can.
And I am am relatively new to dancing but love it: salsa, bachata, blues, west coast swing. (prefer blues and WCS)
I’m really good at
People: reading people, small talk, making others comfortable/ pushing edges (not as opposing as it seems), finding what people are excited about.
The first things people usually notice about me
I am disarming.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
Books: Cannery Row, Electric Cool-Aid Acid Test, Tao Te Ching, Jitterbug Perfume, The Magus, Sherlock Holmes.

Music: bluegrass, trip-hop, folk, indy, funk i.e. Doc Watson, Wax Tailor, Balkan Beat Box, Devil Makes Three, Devendra Banhart, The Pimps of Joytime, Ray Charles, Thievery Corporation, Old and in the Way.

Food: Mexican food, Californian food (fresh/lots of veggies), Thai food. I like to cook but have been too busy to do much recently.
Six things I could never do without
spell check
close friends
my backpack

(I could survive, but would be significantly saddened if I couldn't eat Mexican food)
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Traveling, Future Studies, Kids, Outdoors, Improving Myself, Kink , People in my life.
On a typical Friday night I am
Mountains or beach. Dancing, drinking and eating good food. Bantering and telling stories.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
Our house videos could blackmail so many of us.
You should message me if
If you are curious, friendly, love a good adventure, can be spontaneous, bold, sassy or kinky. If you're intrigued.
The two of us