EssKayinabox
30 Philadelphia, United States
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My self-summary
Note: I travel to Boston and Hartford fairly often. So if you live there and see my profile, it's probably because I'm visiting for a weekend (or two).

If I haven't responded to you twice before, chances are I won't respond to the third/fourth/fifth time either. Please take the hint and stop embarrassing yourself.

Me: I am petite and fun aka better than the average bear. Workaholic and workoutaholic. I work out 5-6 days a week (running, dancing, yoga), and I really enjoy cooking (I'm also pretty good at it). I also speak 4 languages. Did the BSR (10 miles) and the Hot Chocolate run (15k). Rock n Roll half marathon is next! Clearly I am active, so if you're someone who likes munching on cookies while playing video games all day and night, then no we aren't going to work. Good luck with everything else!

I'm not bisexual (please stop asking me to sleep with your wife), nor am I a swinger. Thanks for the invite, but no thanks.

Deal breakers: Smokers, tattoos, piercings, and men with pics of pouts. Also, I'm not 420 friendly. If you do it, then good for you. I'm sure you'll find plenty of other girls who would dig your habit.
Plus points if you: like working out/running, have a warm smile, have a beard, and can rock a suit. I go to a lot of events so I need arm candy (I'm just kidding, but not really 😜).

P.S. If you "liked" me, I won't get to see it, obviously. How about you drop me a line instead?
What I’m doing with my life
I supervise/manage 35+ people. I also help people with their health insurance when the insurance company screws them. Yeah... I fight for the 98%.

I am would like to go for my second Masters degree, and maybe a third one at some point. But that's work in progress. That's right! I'm a closet nerd. 🤓

Apparently I'm also on a mission to find the perfect man who won't break my heart and appreciate beauty and brains instead of being intimidated by it. ¯\_(ツ)_/¯ guess we'll see how that goes.
I’m really good at
Apparently making people laugh. A few people told me to put that in there. I have a dry sense of humor, often at someone's expense. Please don't be offended by my "That's what she said" jokes.
I am also really good at directions. I feel men are terrible at it! I'm a very good navigator, and I love exploring new cities, new places to eat, new cuisines etc. You get the idea.
The first things people usually notice about me
I don't know. Why don't you tell me?

What I've been told people notice: First are my large dark eyes. I always think it would be funny to say: "I have big eyes, and I ain't afraid to use them!" So far I haven't had a chance to use that phrase.

A few people also told me I have a warm smile and I can light up any room I walk in. I don't know... I think PECO was doing a pretty great job in lighting up rooms.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
Books: Anna Karenina, Examining Tuskegee, Millennium (Girl with the Dragon Tattoo) series, Godfather, Kite Runner, the Alchemist and a few others. Oh and I've read 50 Shades of Grey.... what an awful piece of literature!

Shows: GoT, of course. Flash, and the Arrow. And Archer. I loooovvveee Archer!

Movies: The Shawshank Redemption, Fight Club, Black Swan, Dark Knight series, Blood Diamonds, The Departed, Inception, and mostly all of Chris Nolan movies (directed as well as produced).

Things I DON'T like: donuts, straight men with chihuahuas, chihuahuas in general (in a certain language the word is closely related to the word for mice), Starbucks coffee, beer.
The six things I could never do without
Air, water, food, family, clothes (I don't want people to see me naked!) and nutella (yes... it gets its own category.) If you don't like nutella, we can't be friends, let alone anything more.
I spend a lot of time thinking about
What am I doing on this website? What came first: The chicken or the egg?

Where to go for my next adventure. I've been to 3 out of 5 continents. Trip to Europe is next. Wondering where I should go. Ideas are welcome.

Am I the only one who finds "Hobo"ken and "Hack" en "sack" funny? What about "TriBeca"? My friend Becca hears all about it. Lol!
On a typical Friday night I am
Spending time with friends or family. Or traveling. I could also be drinking tea at home and binge watching Netflix. Or maybe out running on the River trails. Schuylkill and Mystic river offer the best views for Watching sunset.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I love Disney and Pixar stuff. I like watching Tinkerbell with my 4-yr old niece with probably as much interest in it as her. I cry every time Mufasa dies, and I laugh everytime Mowgli meets king of the apes.

I'm also a pure city girl born and raised, so yes, I've never seen a horse or a cow in real life. Never been camping either! Waiting for someone to show me the way.
You should message me if
You're interesting. And most importantly if you can make me laugh. Also... If you can pull off a suit, you might catch me oogling at your pictures. How do you turn the damn private browsing on?!?! Yeah... I have a weakness for men in suits.
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