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My self-summary
Who knows, really? Mostly a decent guy, too many books, not nearly enough fun.

People probably describe me as intense, hyper-verbal, meaninglessly energetic. I'm a native New Yorker who returned after a few years in California and have been trying very hard to amalgamate the coasts into one way of living...unsuccessfully, thus far but I'm not without hope. For a while, I felt quite central to life in New York, or gay life anyway, and I'm kind of grateful that this period of life is passing me by.

What else? Got rid of cable about six months ago which seems to be working out well. I go to the gym in the fact, I prefer to do a lot of things in the morning...and wish most of my lunches did not take place over the keyboard. End-of-day, if I've got plans, I'd prefer a quiet, even an unpopular restaurant to one where I cannot hear someone talk.

I'm a lucky guy in many ways -- a lot of friends, a job I genuinely enjoy, a home in which I like to spend time -- but I'm getting tired of being single.
What I’m doing with my life
I talk and write a lot -- professionally.
I’m really good at
Hard to answer this and pretend to be at all modest. I think I'm a good conversationalist, a good writer, a good friend, and I make excellent soup.

I'm a semi-speedy road biker [many trips down the California coast on AIDS/LifeCycle] though New York-Nyack, Nyack-New York can get pretty boring.

No one seems to want to know what I'm really bad at, but in the spirit of full disclosure, I hate shopping and am helpless buying clothing. I'm pretty tidy but cannot bring myself to make the bed every day, and every once in a while, I forget that I have something in the fridge and buy Thai food on the way home from the office.
Six things I could never do without
The gym
Free speech
On a typical Friday night I am
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
Fond of Gloria Estefan.
The two of us