42El Paso, United States
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My self-summary
I'm a very laid back guy that enjoys life and has learned over the years to live stress free. I don't sweat the small stuff and tend to stay away from those that do. I love listening to music as well as producing it. It's been 10 years since the last time I was single so I'm just seeing what is out there. I am a movie fanatic and there aren't many movies that I have not seen. I am looking for someone who is cool and open minded. That type of woman that can be spontaneous and be ready to do things without having to always plan everything out. I've found some things are more enjoyable when they are not planned. I am looking for someone who can accept me the way I am willing to accept them. As is!!! I have learned to love people for being who they are and not picturing what they could or may become.

I am admirable, spontaneous, and unrealistically loyal...It would be nice to find someone with the same or similar qualities. Would love to find someone that I could fall in love with without getting my heart broken. Not sure if it can be broken too many more times. lol....(It may have a callous growing over it by now.)
What I’m doing with my life
For the last year I have been focused on being a father and just getting the bills paid. I am about to get back into school just to get official. I have a lot of skills but nothing on paper that proves I know what I know. Just lost nearly 50 lbs over the last year. My former profession was not desirable if you want to be in the best health. So I am also focused on leading a healthier lifestyle. I don't ever want to get that way again. Other than that I am just being my normal laid-back self and enjoying all that life throws my way......(updating).....I have been in school and am now almost finished with it. I am looking forward to getting an IT job so that I can start a new career doing something that I've always found enjoyable.
I’m really good at
understanding people and their perceptions. Martial arts is a love of mine, and I have over 15 years of experience with various styles. I'm good at debating and also the art of persuasion. I'm good at completing a Rubik's cube. I have been known to produce some nice music as well to include Reggae, R&B and hip-hop. I've always been good at many things which is probably why I am only great at a couple. I was always so busy trying different things that I never focused on just one.
The first things people usually notice about me
is my engaging personality. I'm the type of guy people share their life stories with the same night they meet me. My honesty is very noticeable and I will often warn people to not ask me a question you may not want to hear the answer to.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
My favorite books are mainly non-fiction, self help types. As far as music I actively listen to everything except heavy metal. When it comes to movies, there aren't many that I have not seen. I love watching movies of all types. I love bbq and and Korean food. I love to eat period. I have tried many different entrees from lots of cultures and countries.
Six things I could never do without
love, family, friends, music, self-respect, trust
I spend a lot of time thinking about
ways to improve myself as a man a father. How to pay off my bills quicker. How I would handle things if I happen to fall in love again. Wondering if I even can fall in love. How to make a significant income in the current state of the economy.
On a typical Friday night I am
working late...and then partying even later.....I have no problems trying to enjoy life to the fullest extent.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
is still private. My grandmother taught at a very young age to not offer more than what is needed to people you don't know well. My closest friends know everything about me.....
You should message me if
you have gotten this far down my profile page anyway.....LOL. If you can truly handle a nice guy...a gentleman at heart.... I've heard the cliche of woman that want a nice guy, but if that was so true how come so many don't know how to treat one? Regardless of how I've been treated in the past, I still strive to be an ultimate gentleman in search of a woman who can appreciate that fact....If you are cheater, liar or faker then please do not waste my time or yours. I'm a genuine gentleman who knows how to treat a woman and want/deserve the same treatment in return.....Have a great day and thanks for stopping by my profile!!!
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