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My self-summary
I'm an easy going guy, who is looking for an easy going woman. No games. Don't like heated arguments. Thoughtful discussion is okay.

I'm from Florida originally. My work in aircraft caused me to travel all over the USA. Now I have settled here in Albuquerque, and am semi-retired. That leaves me with a lot of time on my hands. They say "Idle hands are the devil's playground". You want to play?

I want to play, and I want someone to play with. Do something, anything! That could be anything from sitting on the couch watching a movie one day, to tubing down a river the next. Now that I don't have to travel all over the place, and work 12 hours a day, 7 days a week, I can enjoy life, and be free.

Can you tell, I like the outdoors? When I was back home in Florida, I was always at the beach, or out in the swamps and marshes. I enjoyed them times. I could tell you about them, and you tell me stories of your life, as we make new memories.

I like this song. It hits home for a lot of us, including me.
"I Don't Like To Sleep Alone" Paul Anka
I been walking down a long old road.
All kinds of twists and turns I've been told.
I don't know when this road may end,
but I'd be happy to walk it with you, my friend.

When I was young, I was told.
Never give up, always be bold.
Now that time has past and I've been grown,
I've learned I just can not do it all alone.

I been walking down a long old road.
All kinds of twists and turns I've been told.
I don't know when this road may end,
but I'd be happy to walk it with you, my friend.

© 2014 James E Parks Jr
What I’m doing with my life
Living It!

Added 07-30-2014: I've really got into politics lately. I have a blog going on it, and talk to other people about it all the time.

Added 12-26-2013: Now that I've beat cancer and HCV I am living life to the fullest. There is a ton of stuff I haven't seen and done yet. Better get cracking. I'm not going to waste a second chance at living.
I'm kicking back. I have my doubts if I will ever be able to do my old job again, so I have to find other ways to occupy my time. Maybe in the future things will change and I go back to it, but I doubt it.

So instead of working myself to death, I'm doing things I want to do. Things like go out in the desert looking for cool rocks, fossils and other things. Going to auctions and buying stuff. Then try to make a profit at the flee market or on eBay. Try to find ways to fill all this time I find myself with. Maybe find a like minded woman who will fill the time with me.

If you're silly, and wouldn't mind being in a video, we can have fun with it. I am a Youtube partner and my channel has over 594,664 video views, 645 subscribers.

I run all these web sites below. The top one I just started.


I like to do my art too! I've actually sold a few pieces. That was exciting.
I’m really good at
Working with my hands
Feeling other people's emotions
Finding the truth
The first things people usually notice about me
Eyes (blue), I think. At least that's what women have always told me.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
Tom Sawyer, Battleship, Legend of the Seeker, New Mexican food

I think these are pretty cool:
Björk - Army of me
Muse - Madness
Celldweller - Eon
Eye Contact - Polysics @ Nippon Budokan
Talking Heads - Girlfriend Is Better
Six things I could never do without
1. Hope
2. Friendship
3. Love
4. Devotion
5. Determination
6. Peace
I spend a lot of time thinking about
I have been pretty active on the political front lately.

Making a homestead way out in the boonies. Making it off grid and green. Raising chickens, and getting back to a simpler way of life. Wanting to find that best friend/woman for me, who might want the same kind of things.
On a typical Friday night I am
Watching movies or playing games. I would rather go do something with a special lady/best friend/sweetie. Being single is ok, but having that special someone to have fun with is way better.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I'm extremely ticklish. <==nervous about posting that, I may take it down. <=blush=>
You should message me if
Message me if you have a free spirit, and want a new friend. I'm always up for at least making friends. Then we'll see where it goes. If there is chemistry, who knows? :)

I'm not into religion, so message me not, if that's your central focus.
The two of us