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My self-summary
I am a well educated, fit, free thinking, gentleman of intellectual capacity and creative technical competence devoted to a lifetime of learning and experience. Not a social animal I tend to intense and private relationships, speaking freely and honestly are not after all viable social skills.

Time constraints are my bane, there just is not enough of the stuff to go around. So I am working on integrating a big bucket list into every day and could really use some help here trying to find a balance.

Having labored some years on a stuck business it is past time to get on with life. I need to warn you though, I am not an average dulled out citizen with 6 pack and t.v. sports.

I am more intense than most, say music for example, to listen to popular radio is a physical, painful, suppression of gag reflex event for me, on the other hand the right Santanna, Satriani or for that matter any style of music with palpable soul is a nearly orgasmic experience, seriously. Try Ain't no sunshine when she's gone, if that fails to move you deeply then please move on.

I'm not yet clear of my working obsession, it still consumes much of me, though less every day. It's not like there is a light switch here. Likewise finding a companion/activity partner/mate is a continuum that defies these stupid catagories. I for one do not fit into a box while still breathing. and seek only a girl who knows what she is about
What I’m doing with my life
Keeping it memorable
I’m really good at
Making things, helping others achieve goals, being a true friend, laughing at myself, finding joy and meaning in life.

Sticking with goals and keeping a positive attitude despite life's "little" difficulties.

Meatless cooking that satisfy more traditional expectations.

Learning I have averaged a book a day usually one audiobook a day for the last 6 years

Massage having 3 years training in tui na, shiatsu, osteo manipulation, acupressure, I really enjoy giving a full hour massage leaving my victim semi comatose, fully relaxed with big smile
The first things people usually notice about me
Mental acuity, technical competence, and creativity barely within accepted norms of behaviour
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
I do not own a TV or listen to comercial radio and am amazed at the utter crap people allow into their lives. Your Party station sucks

I both play(guitar) and listen to a wide variety of music jazz, rock, blues. EDM and the vital non commercial stuff that can be gleaned off late nite college stations, Go KCRW

Movies Shawshank Redemption, Pulp Fiction. all that edgy stuff that will not fit neatly in categories and have disturbing resonance not adjusted to happy audience satisfaction ratings

Cuisine: Spicy Thai food that stimulates the passions, good pizza with beer as nutritional perfection, a currently out of fashion grain and vegetable based diet that with occasional flesh that was basis for most civilizations, Actually the grains trained us to care for them with our civilization as a by product. As their worker ants we prepare and maintain much of the arable surface of the planet for their exclusive habitat and receive in payment, our primary diet as pasta, bread, rice, and nectar of the gods in the form of beer or the most sublime distillations of fine spirits such as Whiskey and Vodka served chilled and neat in a shot glass from the freezer.

Books: A history of the world in 6 glasses. How beer created civilization by keeping water safe to drink

1434 how the Renaissance was gleaned from a printed Chinese compendium of technology gifted the Vatican without ever crediting the source

1493: How the world was fundamentally altered as result of the Colombian exchange of plants, diseases, animals, religious subjugation and ecological upheaval

A short history of nearly everything-Bill Bryson How we actually learned about our world, ourselves and the universe.

Opinion" While science pretends unbiased objectivity great power is weilded in through organized indoctrination in schools validating old boy establishment taking credit for others work, dumb luck, accident, theft and treachery to maintain a profitable status quo not unlike the church of old.

The Bro Code, The wee free men(Sir Terry Pratchet) are a few.
Neuromancer and Snow Crash Sci Fi Epics

\Audio books Rock!
Six things I could never do without
Breath: And pulse:and how many have there been now one following another flowing into days with the
Memory: of Sun setting behind an island while floating on surfboard beneath coastal cliff and ends in spent embrace
Attitude: waking to a warm breeze and sunlight, smell of suntan oil, her scent Keeps me going for
Another Day this side of the dirt
Thank you Lord, may I have another
Six things? Whatever
I spend a lot of time thinking about
How genetically engineered plants ended world hunger sustaining 6 billion and the snooty Europeans cry about franken foods, talk about NIMBY
On a typical Friday night I am
Working of busting out of my cage for some meaningful expression of touch and intimacy as alternative to "Still Working"
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
That I am fascinated by and attracted to the third sex.
You should message me if
You want to and are not a blimp.

Especially if you think that you can rock my world or are challenged finding a man who can keep up with you.

Like to carry on an intelligent conversation regarding most any technical, scientific, historical subject matter with an articulate guy as a means of determining potential compatability.

If you would like a great massage or more
The two of us