FemiKantBuddConf
33 Glen Burnie, United States
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My self-summary
We're both way more interesting than anything we can put into these little boxes.

A friend of mine has said that I speak like an essay reads.

Leftist/Radical/SJW

I'm not terribly certain what I'm looking for on here, but I'm trying to do this thing where I spend time outside of my room and meet new people, so this seemed like as good a place as any to start.

I've recently reset my questions, so that is subject to change.

I have no idea what I'm doing.
What I’m doing with my life
I recently accepted a job at a small company that makes educational materials for professionals, things like how to run meetings well, how to hire in accordance with equal opportunity standards and the like. I actually like it, this is a new feeling for me.

Coming to terms with the fact that we live in the worst possible cyberpunk dystopia.

Failing to study Chinese.

Figuring out how to move back to Taipei.

I'm moving back in to Baltimore soon.
I’m really good at
Learning, but not necessarily school.

Recognizing what I understand as what I understand, and what I do not understand as what I do not understand.

I'm not a genius but I'm pretty freaking smart. I know a lot about a lot of things, but I'm much too self-conscious to talk about any of it unless a person specifically asks me about something that I feel like I can opine on.
The first things people usually notice about me
People tell me one of two things, I either over think and needlessly complicate things, or that I intellectualize conversation.

You decide which it is.

I come across as very serious, but it's really just my demeanor. Yes, most of the time I'm lost in thought, with a very serious expression on my face, but I'm just as likely to be working out how to reconcile Confucian ethical principles with contemporary gender theory as I am to be trying to decide what I'm going to eat for lunch.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
This used to be huge, and then it was small, and now I'm just going to say that I like a lot of different things, I like a lot of things, and I have very strong opinions about all of it.

Right now I'm reading Six Records of a Life Adrift, The Complete Lockpick Pornography, Romance of the Three Kingdoms, and A Confederacy of Dunces.
The six things I could never do without
I don't like this section. Everyone fills it with stuff that they need in some trivial way(food, water), stuff they don't actually need (coffee, carrots), or stuff that's too abstract to be meaningful in this context(hope, dreams). I'm not above this, I've done all these things, it still frustrates me.
I spend a lot of time thinking about
How the only thing I feel I can really be certain of is that everything is complex. In all things, the truth resists simplicity.

A few other things that I spend absolutely copious amounts of time thinking about: social justice, justice, ethics, power, Gundam, Warframe, jrpgs, how media informs and influences our perspectives, Superman.
On a typical Friday night I am
Being a hermit. My therapist thinks I need to go out more.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I'm what is commonly referred to as a social justice warrior.
You should message me if
-You want to go sing some karaoke.
-You want to go to a museum.
-You want to talk ethical theory.
-You want to get coffee.
-You saw what I did up there.
-You picked up on what my name references, or even just parts.
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