31Santa Cruz, United States
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My self-summary
I strive to be an open minded and friendly person, it's liberating to connect with all types of people. I like to go out dancing with friends, especially goth clubs! However, I'm interested in many different kinds of music and fashion (not just gothic). Dressing up is a fascination that has stuck around since childhood, yet I'm just as happy being casual and out in nature. I'm looking for new experiences, and thrilling adventures.

Currently I'm an assistant for a local Real Estate Broker, and am looking forward to expanding my knowledge and licensing in that area, even possibly delving in to Real Estate Staging. For twelve years I was a nanny for my nephews, and it was a challenging yet rewarding job. I've helped out with a friend's awesome band, and have greatly enjoyed that. The entertainment business, and the marketing of creativity and art has always been an interest of mine.

I enjoy having intelligent conversations, talking is sexy... and so is a smart and open minded person! I'm also a huge night owl, not a big fan of the morning (except perhaps if I am still awake to enjoy one), the nocturnal gene runs in my family!
What I’m doing with my life
Still trying to fit all the puzzle pieces together, sometimes all together taking them apart and mixing it up. Trying to learn the balance between living for the moment and living for the future. At the same time trying to live life to the fullest and experience new things, while in tandem figuring out some kind of calling.

In other words, i'm doing a diverse amount of things with my life. And most of the time i'm very happy with them. But I have much more to discover.
I’m really good at
I'm a very good listener, and enjoy lending moral support to loved ones. I'm a pretty decent baker. Experienced at the delicate art of child entertaining. Enjoying the fun in life, laughing often.
The first things people usually notice about me
My smile! Perhaps my snazzy shoes. Or my "Vixen" tattoo.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
Love horror movies; The Lost Boys.....Nightmare on Elm St. Romantic comedies. Classic movies; Roman Holiday, Gilda, The Pirate. Batman Returns, The Labyrinth, Dirty Dancing, Sixteen Candles, The Crow, The Nghtmare Before Christmas, Edward Scissorhands, almost anything with Johnny Depp... but especially..Chocolat--Blow--Donnie Brasco-From Hell, Rocky Horror Picture Show, The Last Days of Disco, Cemetery Man, Atonement, The Breakfast Club, The Craft, Moulin Rouge, Henry and June, Chicago, Ferngully, Texas Chainsaw Massacre (the old ones!), The Hunger, Bound, Gia, Foxfire, But I'm a Cheerleader. A big fan of Outlander, Arrow, Shadowhunters, The Walking Dead, Game Of Thrones, True Blood, Fringe, Supernatural, Buffy The Vampire Slayer, Dexter, and Bones.

Music is an integral soundtrack to life; Metric, The Cult, AFI, The Smiths, Siouxsie and the Banshees, The Sisters of Mercy, INXS, Madonna, Blondie, The Pretenders, Eurythmics, The Doors, Guns N' Roses, Portishead, Garbage, The Gossip, Yeah Yeah Yeahs, Dresden Dolls, The Distillers, The Scorpions, Johnny Cash, Led Zeppelin, Pink Floyd, Rilo Kiley, Bauhaus, Joy Division, The Cure, Nine Inch Nails, Duran Duran, Social Distortion, Dusty Springfield, Le Tigre, Tegan and Sara, Aretha Franklin, Bikini Kill, Chris Isaak, My Life with thrill kill Kult, Tori Amos, Ladytron, Horrorpops, The Kinks, Rolling Stones, The Misfits, Mazzy Star, Jenny Lewis, The Killers, Stellar Corpses, Danzig, David Bowie, Dommin, Sleater Kinney, New Order, The Creepshow, lots more!

Anne Rice--The Vampire Chronicles--The Claiming of Sleeping Beauty, Stephen King---Pet Sematary--Nightshift, The Mists of Avalon, Harry Potter series, Catswold Portal, Kushiel's Dart, Patricia Cornwell--Scarpetta series, Pride and Prejudice, Night Huntress series, Nancy Drew books, Jean Marie Auel's Earth's Children series, The Great Gatsby, A Wrinkle in Time, paranormal romance books, Tipping the Velvet.

Food wise... All kinds, I like to be adventurous. Favorites include Thai food, Italian, and Mexican. Lasagna, pizza, red curry, spicy fried rice, nachos, enchiladas. I have a sweet tooth too, cupcakes, ice cream, and candy! TJ's blood orange soda.
Six things I could never do without
* Music
*Family and Friends
*Books to read
*Spicy Food
I spend a lot of time thinking about
What the future will hold, and how I can achieve my many dreams. The complexities and quirks of those close to me. And normal things like, fashion, sex, death, and food!
On a typical Friday night I am
Anything from Hanging out with my friends, dancing, road trips to LA, or just staying in and watching movies! Maybe having Buffy watching parties. A wide variety of things, I prefer to not be typical!
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I was briefly obsessed with the movie Titanic, but I was 13 after all... ;)
You should message me if
I have intrigued you in any capacity. Especially if you like to dance, traipse around in cemeteries, and love to laugh.

You should not message me if; you are inclined towards simply rhapsodizing about certain physical assets, married, or older than my stated age range. I mean --sure you can try, but you will most likely just end up as entertainment for me, and not get a response.

Not looking for one night stands. :)
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