51 Natick, United States
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My self-summary
Not seeking a one night stand. Not seeking a girlfriend. Seeking an ongoing partner in crimes - crimes of pleasure. I am not a vanilla kind of guy. Looking for playing out fantasies in real life.
What I’m doing with my life
I am married to my best friend, who likes things gentle and safe. I have accepted who she is, but slso accept who I really am. I want to continue to explore those things that she is not interested in. I know some may wish to judge me - I seek those who are open, not those close-minded.
I’m really good at
Generating Endorphins by exploring boundaries, listening to the word No (not a real *no*, but a safe-word). I'm also really good with massages, but you probably aren't reading my profile for something so vanilla.
The first things people usually notice about me
piercing blue eyes.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
Fifty Shades of Grey - the series (the content, not the writing)
The Story of O
Urban Tantra
9 1/2 weeks
Basic Instinct
The six things I could never do without
The smell of leather (on you)
My iPhone
My Bag of Sex toys (Handcuffs/rope/other methods of securing someone, Paddles/whips, Nipple clips, blindfold, and a few more that you should ask about...)

.. and a player to be named later
I spend a lot of time thinking about
How to create endorphines by pushing boundaries without creating anguish, Learning tantric techniques, and learning what excites my partner.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
Isn't this entire profile a private thing I am admitting?
You should message me if
You want to have a new friend who you can safely explore that which is secret, that which you may not be ready to admit to others, that which you want to learn about, that which you read....

You are gay/bisexual female and looking for an occassional male counterpart. Yes, I could be one of your toys.

A couple who wishes to play with a dom, or wishes to watch me with her.

or someone just interested in having no-guilt fun.

you want to see a more detailed pic (or two or three) of who I am...