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My self-summary
Random stuff --
I have a very dry sense of humor, a voracious appetite for learning new things and discussing everything and anything. I find it impossible to lie, which is often not a good thing. I am tremendously loyal to my friends. Watching the sea lions and big cats at the Bronx Zoo makes me happy. I could stay in the water all day. I get really excited when I get a high word score in Scrabble. When I see people litter I want to push them into traffic. I once won a pair of handcuffs playing Skee-Ball in California, but airport security wouldn't let me take them on the plane. I wonder if the security guard kept them. I work out (gym and lap swimming) and enjoy that smug, self-righteous feeling post-workout.

Movies in a theater, Stephen Colbert , Bill Maher, John Oliver, MSNBC, Central Park, a long subway ride when I'm reading a good book, the beach (and the sound of water), and the Mets (LGM. Sigh).

Travel -- the more exotic, the better. Or perhaps get in a car and just go. Just got back from Lisbon. Next trip may be to re-visit Berlin or Vietnam. Barcelona is the greatest city on Earth.

I'm looking for someone who wants to get out and try all types of things, but is also cool with just hanging out, reading a book and just being. We can be together in the same room having an intense conversation, but can also not say anything without feeling the need to fill the air.

If you are religious and make a point of saying you are "God fearing" (a term I will never understand) we will not get along. Seriously. Trumpers need not apply.

Please have information in your profile. If I can fill in the information, so can you. Please don't say "just ask me". That's what your profile is form

I am confident, spontaneous, intuitive, creative, and calm.
What I’m doing with my life
I work in entertainment but am not a performer. I'm self-employed and can't imagine going back to an office-type job 9 to 5 job.
I’m really good at
Staring contests

Following recipes
The first things people usually notice about me
My eyes
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
NYT (in paper format)
Afternoon tea (3 hours of getting doped up on caffeine with good friends)
60s and 70s arena rock
Joni Mitchell (a genius)
Indie films at Film Forum, Walter Reade, MoMA, etc.

Films by Preston Sturges, George Cukor, William Wyler, Billy Wilder, David Lean, the Coens, Goddard, and Sam Peckinpah; Films -- The French Connection, Chinatown, Dog Day Afternoon, All the President's Men, MASH, Godfather, Sweet Smell of Success, Groundhog Day, Animal House, The Empire Strikes Back, What's Up, Doc; I know Where I'm Going, Philadelphia Story, Holiday, Brief Encounter, Hobson's Choice, The Apartment, the list goes on and on... The '70s is probably my favorite decade for movies.

I didn't mention books since there are just too many to list. The one thing I'll say is the New York Public Library system is amazing.
Six things I could never do without
1) iPhone (so I'm not tied to my computer and can wander the world and STILL work and get paid)
2) passport
3) unlimited Metrocard
4) the beach/ocean/swimming
5) travel
6a) sincerity and honesty
6b) compassion
6c) curiosity
I spend a lot of time thinking about
The clusterf@#@$ in the WH. If you voted for Trump (and I will ask you point blank), do not contact me.
On a typical Friday night I am
Since I'm self-employed and my time is my own, weekends don't mean as much to me. But my ideal evening is getting together with friends for dinner/movies and hanging out for hours.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I can't remember jokes

I have an (admittedly) ridiculous fear of operating a hand drill. If someone wants to help me install a lighting fixture, let me know. Seriously.
You should message me if
You are not interested in emailing each other indefinitely, but want to meet up. I'm not looking for a pen pal.

You think going to a Mets game is a perfect way to spend an afternoon/evening. Yeah, I know, but hope springs eternal!

You care to.

[A word to those who contact me... I will never respond to anyone who says "hello dear" or "hello darling". You should NEVER use terms of endearment to someone you don't know. It's just completely inappropriate and somewhat creepy.]
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