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My self-summary
Hmmm...what to say about myself? I'm a pretty demure guy so I find it a bit awkward talking about myself but I'll give it a try. I consider myself a strong but sensitive individual. I am pretty easy-going & a great listener. I love helping people. I find community service incredibly important.

I've been involved in firefighting/rescue/emergency medical services for over 20 years (being a third generation firefighter, I started very young). It's a very integral part of my life & I love doing it but I try not to let it define me. When conditions permit, I'd love to continue my education & rejoin the scientific community that I was employed in a few years ago. I am truly a nerd at heart & thoroughly enjoy being in an intellectually challenging environment.

As you could probably guess, being a firefighter/EMT, I'm pretty adventurous. I love doing new things. I love the outdoors & I'm always looking to escape my suburban confines. Unfortunately, I don't make a lot of time to do these things right now but I'm looking to change that. My adventurous nature isn't just confined to activities. I'm always looking to expand my horizons. I love listening to new/different types of music, trying new foods, etc.

I like being physically active. Exercise is pretty important to me. I love busting my ass & I'm not afraid to break a sweat. I hate these extra pounds I'm carrying around & I'm working really hard to shed them. Don't confuse me with a health nut though. I will pick tasty food over healthy food any day. That probably has a bit to do with those extra pounds I'm carrying around. I'll probably never will become a super lean guy & I'm cool with that. I'd much rather be the big muscular guy I am than be obsessed with being thin.

As for what I'm looking for here, I am predominantly looking for a relationship but I am open to developing friendships. For whatever reason, I connect much better with woman than man when it comes to developing friendships. Sometimes that has gotten a little complicated & confusing in the past but I think it's worth the trouble finding people I really connect with.

Umm, I'm kinda out of stuff to say about myself but you probably get the gist by now. Anything else you'd like to know about me, don't be afraid to ask. In case you are wondering, I do plan to put more pics of myself. Unfortunately, I'm not the most photogenic person & avoid having my picture being taken whenever possible. The vast majority of the pics I do have of me are me doing firefighting stuff (my dept has a very prolific photographer), me looking rather gruff & me making making silly faces that I'd rather not have people making their first impressions of me.
What I’m doing with my life
As I mentioned previously, I am a firefighter/EMT. I also do some web design & computer repair on the side. Sometime, hopefully not too far into the distant future, I plan on going back to school to get my PhD in the biology/computer science field.
I’m really good at
Listening; Helping people sort out their problems; Remaining calm under pressure; Being compassionate; Fixing things; Doing things nobody else wants to do. Oh yeah, being a big burly guy I'm pretty adept at opening jars so that's a pretty big selling point, right?

I know this may be a bit of a TMI at this point but I think sexual compatibility is very important in a relationship & I'm really good at being very attentive to my partner's sexual wants & needs.
The first things people usually notice about me
My sweet 'stache, shiny noggin & my intense blue eyes. I'm a big burly guy so sometimes people see me as a bit physically intimidating but as soon as they meet me they see that I am anything but intimidating.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
Favorite writers/books: I am a huge Stephen King fan, David Sedaris, Mary Roach, Edgar Allen Poe, JK Rowling, Ernest Hemingway, Kurt Vonnegut, Dr. Michael Baden, Hitchhiker's Guide to the Galaxy, The Walking Dead graphic novel series & I'm sure there's a bunch more I can't think of right now

Movies: I am a huge fan of horror films (just too many to list); Independent cinema; Anything by Quentin Tarantino; Shaun of the Dead, Office Space, Super Troopers, Little Miss Sunshine, Zombieland, Pan's Labyrinth, Star Wars, Ted. Netflix is certainly expanding my cinematic horizons.

Shows:MST3K; Game of Thrones; The Walking Dead; Adult Swim original programming especially old school stuff like Aqua Teen Hunger Force, Space Ghost Coast-to-Coast & Sealab 2021; Top Gear (UK), Bob's Burgers, Archer, Legit, TedTalks series, Infested, Too Cute! (Animal Planet), Mythbusters, Firefly, Arrested Development, Big Bang Theory, The Soup...Damn! I watch waaay too much TV :(

Music: Generally speaking, I primarily listen to "alternative" music but my musical interests are much more broad than that. I do like some genres more than others but I consider myself pretty openminded when it comes to music. At the risk of sounding like a hipster, I'm generally not a big fan of most contemporary pop music. Here are some of my musical interests: Ani DiFranco, They Might Be Giants, Ben Folds (Five), Phish, The Grateful Dead, Johnny Cash, Barenaked Ladies, Kaiser Chiefs, Dropkick Murphys, Flogging Molly, Mumford & Sons, Rage Against The Machine, The Doors, Jimi Hendrix, Violent Femmes, classical music (in general).

Food: Homemade pizza, sushi, breakfast food anytime, Cherry Garcia ice cream, poutine, Indian cuisine.
Six things I could never do without
My family (including my dogs), coffee & I'm ashamed to admit it but TV, my phone & computer. Not quite sure of a sixth thing. Meh, I'll go with hydrocarbons for now. They're pretty important ;)
I spend a lot of time thinking about
I'm a guy! What do you think I spend a lot of time thinking about?! JK (sort of). I know I spend way too much time thinking about what other people think of me. I know it's a bit of a character flaw but I like to look at it as my need to always think of ways to become a better person.
On a typical Friday night I am
On duty @ the firehouse but I'm looking to change that to expand my lacking social life
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I really enjoyed reading the Harry Potter series :)
I have a bunch more but that's all you get for free ;)
You should message me if think I'm an interesting dude :)
This is my first time doing this sort of thing so I have little to no expectations going into it. Let's just see where things go.
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