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My self-summary
Hi, I'm Randy.

Rocky's physical attraction to Adrian blossomed along with their emotional intimacy.

As Rocky said to Pauli ... "She's got gaps, I got gaps, together we fill gaps." But there's no gap in that storyline. Rocky won at all with Adrian, before he ever got in the ring.
What I’m doing with my life
Being serious about relationships. That starts with making online dating as easy as possible. And that's far easier to do when you're not a scammer, self-sufficient, and not allergic to basic hygiene.

(Too many men are a hygiene embarrassment. I love being clean and I've been told a few times that I smell great. Please don't ever buy me cologne.)
I’m really good at
• Being present. I'm a natural nurturer - complementary and supportive. When we meet, and that should happen in days, not weeks, I'd like to hear about the bullets you've recently dodged.

• Being a good date. It's just not that hard to do. Pay attention, be kind and candid, and don't make it an all or nothing.

Quick date story. We were both surprised that Starbucks was out of tea. To lighten our disappointment I was quick on my feet and told my date that there happens to be a Latin word meaning 'out of tea' ..."Empty".
The first things people usually notice about me
I'm chivalrous and understanding.

(No relationship can survive complacency and contempt. You've got to want to show your cards. Only one person can win when people turn relationships into a poker game.)
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
While I think I'm average and open to new experiences we're probably a better match if you prefer Jane Eyre to Fifty Shades, Shawshank over White Chicks, and Star Trek more than Star Wars.

Professionally I own a web design company - now 15 years. Google 'Randy, Philadelphia web design' and you'll find me hovering around the very top.
The six things I could never do without
Talking, face to face, and feeling so comfortable doing it - that calm, ease, and certainty of being able to relax with someone.

Sharing hobbies

Caring for my health.

Sensuality and love making (which isn't 'sex' - love making being selfless, sex being selfish).
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Traveling - San Diego, Rome, Belfast, Montana (big sky) and Wimbledon to play tennis. (That would be Wimbledon, North Dakota.)

My 94 year old mother (dementia and sciatica, but the heart of a 35-year-old. No kidding.)
On a typical Friday night I am
SLEEPING! I'm a morning person! Up early to jog (3 AM on August 15, the only time of day it was cool enough to jog).

Such is the commitment of someone who battles the weight loss demons ... do you? ... you have my respect and sympathy. Please tell me about your struggle.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I'm in recovery. I was addicted to being too manly and unable to express my needs and vulnerabilities. As you can see I'm vastly improving and even writing gooder.
You should message me if
• You like sharing hobbies. I recently learned to play pickelball and will pick up tennis and squash as I continue to lose weight. (Lost 130 so far, perhaps 50 to go, I've lost so much weight even my eyelashes feel lighter.)

• You think the following advice has some merit and want to share it with other women. That is, if you want to make sure he's not a scammer then simply ask for his opinion about scammers ... How do you think women should handle dating site scammers?"

A stand-up guy is going to share your complaint be able to express the details of all the scams he's heard about. What would he do, concoct some grand lie and expect you would never call him on it? Absurd.