53 Drexel Hill, United States
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My self-summary

Had a rough life and don't regret it? Good for you… You lucked out. A challenging life makes you both objective and humble.

Do you like my sense of humor? A true story, at Whole Foods the cashier saw my salad bar container and asked me if I wanted a fork. I told her maybe ... if you buy me chocolate and flowers first.
What I’m doing with my life
1) Taking advantage of my new understanding of the dynamics of relationships. This is the greatest vantage of being in your 50s.
2) Increasing my web design business.
3) Decreasing my weight. Down 130 ... perhaps 50 to go.
I’m really good at
Balance - health, work, social, and super sensitive touch… and smelling great…so I've been told.
The first things people usually notice about me
Eyes, hair, smile, shoulders.
(But of course, like everyone, what I would WANT people to see is: kindness, patience, quick and creative thinker, self-made-mensch.)
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
Anything sophisticated. We will never be talking about reality TV.
The six things I could never do without
Shared experiences - i'd like to learn to throw clay with someone, take up archery, even learn curling and snooker (please look it up, it's fascinating).

The serene comfort of human touch, Fall, bacon, training, erotica, physical conditioning, my pursuit of a 4.5 tennis rating, chores that let the mind wander - I'm an ideas person.

Blue also moves me deeply.
I spend a lot of time thinking about
San Diego, weight-loss, the videos I make explaining the nuts and bolts of design and marketing and exposing some search marketing scams.
On a typical Friday night I am
SLEEPING! I'm a morning person! .. 9 pm I'm out! No interest in going to clubs.. sorry, up early to jog.

Such is the commitment of someone who battles the weight loss demons ... do you? ... you have my respect and sympathy! *please tell me about it ... I've helped lots of people with simple advice ... NO SURGERY!*
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I'm in recovery… from a lifetime of not expressing my vulnerabilities. Expressing yourself out loud is a challenge for many men. My ideal partner also has the confidence to show as many cards as I do.
You should message me if
• You're interested in a long-term monogamous relationship.

• You feel good knowing I would never THINK to ask your bra size or send you a naked picture of myself.

• You love making love and want it to be spectacular (but frankly staying in the realm of normalcy.)

=== BONUS ADVICE FOR WOMEN ================
Here's one way to keep scammers and perverts away - ask their opinion.

Send them a message like:
"What's your opinion about men asking women they meet on dating sites for money? What's your opinion about how quickly men should be asking women for sex? Should they ever? How does that work with you? Have you ever asked someone for anything intimate on the first date ... or even when you first meet them? What's your opinion on me bringing a friend to our first few meetings?"

What are they going to do?… Create some sophisticated lie and I expect that you won't call them on it? Nonsense.

Men who aren't scammers or perverts will simply have no problem telling you all the ways they agree with your complaint.

I've been told this is a smart strategy and I hope you share it.