Overall I'm a very calm guy with some ridiculous outbursts. It's not easy to get me mad, but if you really insist on being a d*ck, I will play that game and play it well.
Things people have said about me:
-"Your room contains as many weird things as your mind, and that's a compliment."
- "You're the kind of guy who should be driving an old Land Rover in England."
Movie: Forest Gump, Blood Diamond, The Talented Mr. Ripley, Spy Game, The Thomas Crown Affair, Weddingcrashers, Band of Brothers, Hornblower, Interview with a vampire, The Life Aquatic.....I love watching movies, and I do it a lot. I see them as entertainment, and I'm not very interested in meaningful 'art house' things. The most important thing for me in a film is ambiance, and I will watch a carefully selected 5 minutes of a movie just to get in the right mindset for something.
Music: Anything, but really like '30 and '60-'70 mostly old pop and rock.
Food: I like almost everything, and I even enjoy cooking it. My specialties are mostly oriental and Italian, but I have a particular fondness of having fun with old Dutch cuisine at the moment. The general idea of Dutch cuisine is horrible, but can be really interesting if you do it right.
-The Holy Trinity (soy sauce, powdered ginger and galanga root)
-what to do if you'd win the lottery
-what my cat is thinking
-why people can be so stupid
-why do the buttons on mens clothes are on the other side than womens clothes (I know the answer to this now!)
-if everyones view of what blue is, is the same
-why beer tastes so good, even though it has such an undiserable taste
and so on, and so on, and so on...
I have to be home by 12, or a pumpkin turns into me. And even though the idea of mutual clone masturbation is interesting, I think 1 is enough.
I believe life is about collecting experiences, the good and the bad. This has resulted in some stuff that I'm typing under the title: "Things I wouldn't tell my mother." Ask me about it.
I honestly don't get the Sushi-craze. Sashimi is awesome, but you can leave the cold rice somewhere on vacation where it will thoroughly enjoy itself.
You: Very intelligent, educated, mature. You don't need a man to base your self-confidence on. You're a sparring partner, not a head-nodder. You love to dress up for yourself, not for my sake. You like it when I bore you with endless amounts of 'fun facts' in museums and during films. You're your own social entity, and know you way around a party with only strangers around.
We: Have a drink, laugh, get drunk (or have coffee for hours on end). I'll cook, you'll sit there drinking wine and being pretty (helping me cook is dangerous; lots of running, incoherent words, and flying knives; and I simply like to cook for you). Dinner turns into long talks, and playing eachother different songs with an almost competitive enthousiasm.
Lots of 'Damn.... the bottle's empty...already'-moments, making silly future plans we don't take seriously...
I want to be romantic, and I want someone to share that ambiance with me, who will build it with me. I'm not here to take you for a ride....I'm looking for someone who will build that ride with me.
Interested? Shoot me a message, anything at all.
Don't message me if your jaw is permanently working on a piece of gum; it's disgusting.