Fontessa
46 San Anselmo, United States
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My self-summary
Since life isn't an exotic foreign film, there's online dating. But that's just fine because I only know two languages, and one of them not very well. I have a few things going for me, though: a fulfilling career, a healthy sense of humor, and passion. I know how to think, and I know how to let go and play, which are not mutually exclusive, by the way. A kind, fun, available, and curious man beside me is what I'm looking for. My needs are simple but important. You take good care of yourself, exercising regularly, and are okay with others taking care of you in a myriad of ways. You read. You laugh often. Good food matters (no foodies required). You like people, want to know them. You are open, honest, and care about stuff. You either love to cook or you love I'll cook for you. Commitment doesn't scare you. Through experience, I've learned the importance of honesty around this issue. I welcome directness. I'd like to be with someone who is capable of reflection and frequent laughing.

I'm fortunate. I'm close to my family, and we're all still here, healthy and hopeful and interested in each other--with some dysfunction thrown in for good measure. I like nice things, like everyone else, but I'm a teacher. No materialist here. I'd much sooner spend my money on food or travel, not stuff. (Well, maybe the occasional clothing item.) Kids, being silly, discussing politics, soft animals, books, plays, hiking, reading/writing, and dancing…well, there are a lot of things I love and things waiting to be loved, I'm sure.

Basically, what I am doing with my life is teaching, learning, creating. If you meet me, and we hit it off, you'll see how passionate I am. It's a fuel. Feeling humbled and vulnerable, too, remind me that I'm a work in progress, and I'd like to spend my precious time with someone who feels the same. This person doesn't have to love his job, but he does need something to get excited about, whether it's dust balls, fixing things, singing karaoke, or volunteering. Since I used to be an actor, I still cling to that conceit that "all the world's a stage," but I give myself a little more credit than Shakespeare once did for my role in it.
What I’m doing with my life
Teaching, primarily. Then there's all the other stuff, which is hopefully where you come in.
I’m really good at
making eye contact with dogs
being inspired
adjusting to changes
straying from recipes
laughing
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
Mexican, Thai, Sushi...a weakness for a good hamburger
Ted talks, NPR
Music: everything from Andrew Bird, to Ella Fitzgerald, to Jack White, to Hank Williams.
Dostoevsky, Zadie Smith, Wallace Stegner, Flannery O'Connor, Elizabeth Bowen, Michael Cunningham, Italo Calvino, Ian McEwan, Faulkner, Dickens, and Shakespeare, and on.
"Breaking Bad," "The Wire," "South Park," "True Detective," J.J. Abrams. PBS. I do have slumming moments when I'll watch anything that is a crime or detective series.
Coens, Hitchcock, Preminger, Almodovar...to start."American Beauty"; "Election," "Memento," "Donnie Darko," "Eternal Sunshine of the Spotless Mind," "Field of Dreams," "Amadeus"; "Mulholland Drive"; "The Best Years of our Lives."
Old movies --especially from the 70's, 30's and 40's-- I'm always interested in seeing ones I missed because I happened to born in the wrong decade.
The six things I could never do without
How can I answer this question without either sounding pretentious or unimaginative?
I spend a lot of time thinking about
A trip I want to take or one I took
Something I just listened to on NPR
Some question I won't ever have an answer to
The people in my life
What to eat and how to get it
On a typical Friday night I am
Enjoying the end of a full week--in whatever way the moment dictates or suggests.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I like foreign horror movies.
You should message me if
something I've said excites or resonates with you. I don't have a subscription that allows me to see who has "liked" me.
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