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My self-summary
Why hello there! My name is Carlos and I really do hate writing these but so do most people so there is that. Ice officially, broken. I am currently a Library Tech over at Barry University though I am studying to get a paralegal certificate. I also partially own, write and work for Smoking Mirror Press as a horror and fantasy writer and am working to make that take off.

I have written my first book which I self-published called "The Pandoran Artifacts: The Aces Are Drawn" a horror novel/short story collection that I hope to have on Kindle as soon as I can sort through the stuffs and would like to work on other books in the future.

I am a bit of a study in contradictions. I am both incredibly shy but also an extrovert who is, so I am told, fairly decent at holding conversations. I can be morbid and cynical one moment and energetically cheerful and optimistic the next. I can be silly or serious depending on when you catch me and how much sleep I have had. While I may seem straight laced I can be perverted with a love for innuendo and the ability to withstand mental assault that would make lesser men’s minds wither.
I am a proud Nerd who loves Dungeons and Dragons, Role-playing games and board games. I love video games with RPG’s and strategy games being my favorite and I absolutely adore good writing and story in the games I play. My music taste are all over the place though I must admit I am not a huge fan of attending concerts unless it’s one of my favorite bands. Large crowds of strangers and very loud noise are not a thing I enjoy so I tend to avoid them where possible. Sadly this means most concerts tend to be more stressful then pleasurable for me.

I love stories and myths, pure and simple, which is why I love Neil Gaiman's writing. I enjoy most reading in general though. I love watching movies of all sorts though I must confess to being a bit of a sci-fi/action junkie. I am fairly political and tend to swing to the left on most issues so be warned on that aspect. I have little tolerance for Randian Objectivist or Trumpian lack of compassion in romantic partners so if that is you, then while we might be friends, I doubt any sort of long term romantic thing can develop. Because work, writing and my weekly tabletop games (That keep me sane and social) take up a lot of my time I am not really the sort who goes out much. I promise comfort, calm and a certain level of dependability so if you are looking for a Manic Pixie Dream Boy to whisk you off on an adventure, then this old Taurus might not be for you.

I have a pretty awesome group of friends and while I never mind adding to that collection I have joined this dating site primarily for the aforementioned dating and possibly casual encounters (Though I don’t do too many of those unless I have some sort of connection with the person) . Basically if we are talking there is a pretty good chance that the thought of dating has at the very least crossed my mind. I tend to be very straightforward honest and logical when it comes to relationship type stuff so if you see us getting no further then friends please just out and say it. Anything else is just a waste of both our time.
What I’m doing with my life
Right now I am working at Barry University as a Library Technician and working to get my Paralegal Certification. I also write as Enrique Bedlam on several places and hope to become a genre writer. I also love gaming of all sorts.
I’m really good at
I am a pretty good singer and talker when I want to be and have been told I am quite persuasive. I have a strange mind when it comes to idea’s so I tend to have interesting perspectives on most things.
The first things people usually notice about me
Well physically I am a large man with long hair, a beard and a loud booming baritone voice so that draws a fair deal of attention. Personality wise, I have been told I can be incredibly friendly and polite.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
A. Books eh? Brace Yourself….list is coming. Anything by Neil Gaiman , Jim Butcher , Terry Pratchet or George Orwell , The Harry Potter series, Song of Ice and Fire, The Lord of the Rings , Jules Vern , Lovecraft, The Hitchhikers Guide to the Galaxy, the Timothy Zahn Star Wars books, Shakespeare, Junot Diaz , Canterbury Tales, the Fairy Queen, The Divine Comedy, World War Z and a whole bunch of other books here and again.

B. Wow, I have a lot. Ok..hmm. All the Star Wars, Star Trek , X-Men and Lord of the Rings movies. Little Miss Sunshine, anything by Mel Brooks or Monty Python. Serenity. The Thirteenth Warrior Behind the Mask, Equilibrium, Inception , Repo The Genetic Opera , Doctor Horrible (AND COMENTARY the Musical) and Kingdom of Heaven .

C. Many. Phantom of The Opera , Les Miserable. Jesus Christ Superstar and Sweeny Todd (The musical not the band) are good. I love Nerdcore rap so Mc Frontalot , Mc Chris and Mc Hawkings are favorites as are the epic rap battle guys. Also a fan of Weird Al and Jonathan Coulton. I enjoy the Ditty Bops, Ingrid Michalson , Weezer , Fiona Apple , Regina Spektor , The Birthday Massacre, Cake, Lacuna Coil , Gorrilaz , Paul And Storm , Erutan, Lindsey Stirling, Miracle of Sound, Malukah and most covers of video game and soundtrack music.

D. Mexican, Asian and Italian.
Six things I could never do without
Friends, Games, My sister, Fantasy, Movies, The Interwebs.
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Daydreaming mostly :) I do alot of that. That or trying to plan things for later because I am an overly complicated man when it comes to plans and logic.
On a typical Friday night I am
Well I usually work on Friday so schedule matching might be a challenge.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
Uh, I guess you would need to message me to find that out. Though I guess I can confess the uncanny ability to learn songs that I despise after only a few hearings and occasionally find myself singing along to them. Very embarrassing at work when someone points out you are accurately singing along with Miley Cyrus.
You should message me if
First and foremost if you read what I wrote. If reading and long-winded rambling are a turn-off then it’s not looking good.

If you feel you are honest and communicative when it comes to relationships and are more willing to make dating a diplomatic negotiation then a guessing game.

If you like dirty and nerdy jokes and things.

If you feel going to a convention then watching Steven Universe, Firefly or Babylon 5 would be an ideal weekend.

If you like board games and tabletop games.

Or if you have anything fun or witty to talk to me about. I always do love a good conversation.
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