28 Chattanooga, United States
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My self-summary
-Native Tennesseean currently stationed in Chattanooga (my hometown).
-Wearer of many hats
-Particular (I just know what I want..)

Highly spiritual, NOT religious.

I vape. Yes, I do. I'm only slightly nerdy about it. I will occasionally smoke one or two cigs a day. 420 friendly, proponent. I have an amazing dog/cat named Tux. Creative, positive, sometimes blunt and passionate although I am very gentle and kind. Mindful living is very important to me and I believe in the art of manifestation. I work hard to live with intention and purpose.

Enjoy singing,making musics, songwriting, psychology, TED talks, astrology/tarot, adventures, turning trash into treasure, gardening, native American culture and spirituality, mindfulness, and authenticity.

Dislikes: bad attitudes, negativity/ pessimism, poor hygeine, those who cannot actively listen, flakes, racism/sexism/homophobia, general disarray, clutter, tomatoes, spiders.

-Cut straight to the point:
-Please do not message me if you are:
**Under 30,
** closed minded, flakey, disrespectful to any women, or a currently using addict/alcoholic (420 all good)
**im also not interested in a threesome thx

I generally don't respond if all you can say is "hay." Hoping to find some cool folks here.
What I’m doing with my life
Too much. Learning the art of simplification.

I own and operate my own business. I worked as a musician for several years, professionally, and will always be a singer songwriter at heart. Always looking to pick and sing or musically collaborate. Additionally, With a passion for psychology and mysticism, I was put on this earth to help, heal, and create. I am very spiritual but will never impose my beliefs on others. I have experience across the board- from political organizing to marketing/PR, being a studio singer, managing sales operations, and working in the psychiatric field. It is not a matter of indecision but a matter of interest and love of many things! The universe tends to bring opportunities my way, and as Voltaire stated, "...current opportunities rarely present themselves twice."
I’m really good at
Effortlessly connecting with others. Creative things of many natures. I do sing very well, and im often far too kind. I believe in integrity and hard work, and I am generally capable of self objectivity and awareness; the principles upon which I live are very important to me. Im very whimsical and I love children and animals. They flock to me. My intuition is so on point it is scary. I have studied music and theatre for over 20 years and those things will always be a part of my life. I am also passionate about social justice, and educated as well (political science/ psych major)

I can easily make friends wherever I go and I can adapt into many different situations.

This year, im particularly good at eliminating individuals, pricipals, and anything that doesnt contribute to my manifestation of a happy, purpose driven, healthy life.

Often too verbose, but Im a great listener :)
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
Lets talk! About music especially. My queens are Stevie Nicks, Tammy Wynette (my momma was named after her. Rly.), and Nina Simone.
To write my musical interests here warrants a novel, but ill list a few. Because I love lists.

Music: my singing/songwriting influences are
*Stevie Nicks (my queen), Neil Young, Nina Simone, Grace Potter, Bonnie Rait, Emmylou Harris, Teena Marie, Janis joplin, Matraca Berg, Kim Deal, Christine Mcvie, Stones, Zeppelin, Alanis,

: fleetwood mac, foster the people, grace potter and the nocturnals, led Zeppelin, pixies, Stones, breeders, 90s alt rock, jason isbell / very select americana, REAL country- gretchen peters, emmylou, dolly, REBA. Southern Rap- OUTKAST, (Andre, marry me.) goodie mob, ugk, boosie, T.I. R&B: Usher (hes from Chattanooga!!!), Tyrese, eryka badu, Ciara, Teena Marie, older 90s stuff. More on Rap: I like the Future/ Kevin Gates/Fetty Wop situation. Rick Ross. Twerkin tracks.
older EDM: baby ann (breakbeats, deep house, bunch of other djs), Lots of Prog Rock/Hard Rock bands: Royal Thunder, Yeah Yeah Yeahs (Love you, Karen O).

TV: 30 rock, the league, veep, parks and rec, girls, homeland, and any 90s series including but not limited to freaks and geeks.True Detective. Quickly addicted to most Crime Drama shows ..... Most all Tina Fey produced stuff. Aziz Anzari's new show. Don't watch a lot of TV, but really enjoy it once the priorities are done, or I need to sit the fuck down and chill.
The six things I could never do without
Love, music, sex, human interaction, my pets.
I spend a lot of time thinking about
***squirrel cage***
On a typical Friday night I am
Adventures or performing/recording or sometimes just chilling with some music and one of my craft projects. Live shows are huge and I love dancing, too. And food and nature. My weekends would ideally be filled with outdoor adventures, live music, crafting, more live music, and general recharge chilling.
You should message me if
You know what you want
You dont play games
You have your shit together
You're passionate
You're intelligent
You have a sense of humor
You are cultured/musical/have a deep appreciation for music and performing arts
And if you play music (legitimately), extra special points, none deducted if you don't play, but its a MUST that my partner appreciates, knows, listens to, and loves music)
You're not a douche
You would hypothetically appreciate my bubbly, eccentric, passionate, goofy, blonde, adhd/ sometimes neurotic, playful, intelligent, emphathic and kind personality.