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My self-summary
Chaotic Good, pervy, stylish nerd who makes tabletop games and art when not at a corporate rent-payin' job. Sex-positive, body-positive, intersectional feminist, and socially progressive. I like coffee, sushi, cocktails, boardgames, vintage clothes, burlesque, roller derby, boardgames, Fluevogs, and Black Phoenix Alchemy Lab. Non-outdoorsy city boy. Avid indoorsman—disliker of football and direct sunlight.

For anyone interested in more than friendship:

I'm a 2-ish on the Kinsey scale, and most (but not all) of my relationship experiences have been with cis women, but I do like to flirt with cute people of any gender expression (singles or occasionally couples) who want to get into my pants, so game on, you sexy motherfuckers. I'm also polyamorous, kinky, and a switch. miz_katherine is my fabulous anchor/primary partner and nex0s_6 is my lovely long-distance partner.

I'm amicably divorced and have one child. I'm not looking to have any more, but it's fine with me if you have offspring of your own. As a general rule, folks I'm dating are unlikely to meet my kid until I've known them for quite a while.

I prefer communication over drama and respect people who own their shit.

Smarts, compassion, and cultural literacy turn me on.

I'm usually pretty busy being this awesome, but I would like to hear from fun new people. It just may be a while before I can schedule a date sometimes.

I like to get down to Portland once in a while and think it would be great to have a lady/guy/couple there to visit/have visit (extra-awesome if they also like boardgames). Get at me, PDX!
What I’m doing with my life
Making board games with ridiculous themes, raising a precocious kid, stuff, things…things n' stuff.
I’m really good at
Making stuff, losing track of time, impropriety.
The first things people usually notice about me
Provided here with no context: I recently heard "He's hot, tell him to stop shaving his pubes."
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
most anything by:
Neal Stephenson
Neil Gaiman
Alan Moore
Chuck Palahniuk
Terry Pratchett
Joseph Campbell
Warren Ellis
William S. Burroughs
Cory Doctorow

Recently enjoyed:
Ready Player One
The Girl With All the Gifts

You Will Die is fucking amazing stuff

Big Trouble in Little China
Buckaroo Banzai
Blade Runner (all the best scifi from the 80's started with "B" apparently)
A Nightmare Before Christmas
Bad Santa
Pulp Fiction
Harold and Maude
Star Wars (original trilogy)
Streets of Fire
No Country for Old Men
There Will Be Blood
Children of Men
Wild at Heart
The Wrestler
The Blues Brothers
Donnie Darko (preferably the director's cut)
Escape From New York
SLC Punk
Full Metal Jacket
A Clockwork Orange
The Jerk
The Thing
The Day The Earth Stood Still (the original, if you mention the one with Keanu, I will go all Gort on your ass)
Wrath of Khan
Shaun of the Dead
The Rocky Horror Picture Show
The Big Lebowski
Fight Club
Star Trek
Tom Waits: Big Time
Monty Python's The Meaning of Life
Summer Wars
Most of the Marvel movies (except the Thor movies—they're only kinda OK)
Rubble Kings
What We Do In The Shadows
Inside Out

Venture Bros.
Buffy the Vampire Slayer
Battlestar Galactica
Mad Men
The Daily Show
The Colbert Report
The IT Crowd
Dr. Who
Torchwood (not so much the 1st season, but 2nd season rocked)
Six Feet Under
Penn & Teller's Bullshit
The Simpsons
Max Headroom
Invader Zim
Samurai Jack
Powerpuff Girls
Count Duckula
The Young Ones
Star Trek
Monty Python's Flying Circus
Aeon Flux
Beavis & Butthead
Mystery Science Theater 3000
Ren & Stimpy
The Wire
The Prisoner
Being Human
Bored to Death
Sons of Anarchy
30 Rock
Flight of the Conchords
Boardwalk Empire
Parks and Recreation
Game of Thrones
The Killing
Adventure Time
Young Justice
Downton Abbey
Orphan Black
Rick and Morty
True Detective
House of Cards
King of the Nerds
Black Jesus
American Horror Story
Sleepy Hollow
Broad City
Drunk History
Jessica Jones
Aressted Development
The Expanse
Horace and Pete

I like a shit-ton of music from every genre and many eras.

But I am not, and never will be, a belieber.

dry rub barbeque
dim sum
dark chocolate
Islay Scotch
a corned beef sandwich at Katz's Deli
bagels with lox & cream cheese
Mexcian food
real Mexican food
coffee (coffeecoffeecoffee—bouncebouncebounce!)
fancy cocktails
The six things I could never do without
my daughter
good food
a comfy bed
people to share the last three items with (but stay clear of my caffeine or I will cut you)
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Game mechanics, semiotics, aesthetics, technology, sex, and the occasional brilliant idea.
On a typical Friday night I am
Tinkering with a board game prototype or committing depraved acts. Sometimes both in one night!
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I cried, just a little bit, at the last couple of Legend of Korra finales.

I have a folder on my drive with all of the Marvel films and TV shows—organized primarily by chronological order in the MCU, and secondarily by their release date. Including 13 placeholder folders for announced future projects.

Also, I'm kinda slutty, but responsibly so.
You should message me if
If you want to go see a nerdcore show, a derby bout, check out a goth club, play a boardgame or rpg, or hang out and watch Venture Bros., or some strange piece of cinema. Bonuses for combining sushi and/or cocktails with any of these activities. Or, if you looked at my picture and thought "Yeah, I'd hit that." (especially if my Fetlife profile was where you saw it first.)

If you have a print of The Day the Clown Cried that you're willing to screen for me.

If you own a Buckaroo Banzai & the Hong Kong Cavaliers concert tour T-shirt. Seriously, get in touch.

If you like interrobangs and Oxford commas.

If you are Julie Andrews circa 1964, Annie Lennox circa 1983, or the reincarnation of Maila Nurmi.